For what it's worth, I will chime in here, and for once, share something I have learned.
I have met many people in my life so far, and some of those people have been homosexual, from close family members to great friends. And in that respect, the being homosexual in love and feelings is one that is expressed differently for many. The reason why it is so hard to identify is due to everyone being a little homosexual because (1) we are animals, and in the animal kingdom, there are many instances of deviancies and (2) we are spiritual beings first and foremost, and there is nothing such as sex, there is only omni-love. This is true.
Here's a prime example, something I discussed with a psychiatrist friend. So, if you are a boy, a young boy, and there's a popular guy at school, there is often a desire to be friends with this popular guy. On the face of it, it is unremarkable and normal as people are gravitated to people that seem valued in society. However, at the same time, there is an element of homosexuality in such behavior because there is an "attraction" to another male. It's so low on the spectrum that it is never given any meaning because it rarely if ever leads to feelings of love or anything like that. (I'm not saying that THAT is de facto a boy acting homosexually, but it does fall on the spectrum.) Also, during puberty, many things happen, depending on a child's hormones. I remember hearing stories of a guy with whom I played music, and at the time, these stories disturbed me. Made me see him differently because I was young, because he was in the closet and abusive to other younger men. It was just bad, actually. It wasn't until I got older did I realize that these events were not novel. Take for example prisons. State and federal prisons in the U.S. Straight men go into prison and then grow toward behaving homosexually in there. I never knew how common it was until I was older.
Women, on the other hand, tend to have a strangely fluid nature to their sexuality. You will often hear that women who are heterosexual in youth become homosexual in their later years, or vice versa. Or you hear stories of experimentation in their younger years, much more often than men. In fact, men tend to be more hardwired in their sexuality, unless put into some exceptional situation, for example in prison where there are no women.
The point I'm trying to make is that sexuality has a fluidity to it, and because of this fluidity, it is hard—very hard—to identify in a natal chart. Indeed, there are examples of plenty of individuals who are heterosexual, through and through, just as there are those who always knew that they expressed love and sexuality homosexually.
Now, with that being said, I will tell you what I have noticed as possible indicators for homosexuality, and bear in mind that there is not one marker but patterns, systems. Also, there are many reasons for various sexual behavior, some of which I won't get into, but I will just say that it has nothing to do with the person but with influences to which the person is subjected.
Here are the bare bone, most rudimentary markers that you will find in charts of people who are filomofylía:
There will be either one or both of these aspects to
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but not always.
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• There is an aspect to
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Also, there will almost always be an excess of negative polarities in the chart.
Here are some charts that demonstrate this:
See e.g., Elton John, Freddie Mercury, Robert Reed, Boy George, Elen Degeneres, Report Everett, Liberace, Richard Chamberlain, Tony Perkins, Nathan Lane, Ru Paul, Ian Mcellan, Harvey Milk, Georgio Armani, Alan Cumming, Rosie O'Donell and last but not least, Bette's chart.
Hi guys, that's my chart. I'm 21+ years old, never had a boyfriend or relationship. I like women all the time. They are very sexual attractive to me & I'm feeling romantic with them. I'm also in love with one older woman since I was 17, it's kind of one-sided love. I'm struggling with that, cause I want normal family and kids one day, but I don't like men, I wish to like, but I'm feeling such a man inside and thinking such a man. Although I'm very feminine & gentle in appearance.I need to be the lead in the relationship, I need to initiate the steps, I'm feeling that I need to impress, I need to take cares and spoil, I need to make romantic surprises, I need to make an other woman happy, not a man me. When a man flirts with me, I'm feeling so confused and bothered like he takes my role. I'm wondering is that because of the something in the chart? I'm curious to know the indications if I am born this way and is it going to be like that the whole life.
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