Thanks to everyone for their insights.
Freedomlover, you asked specifically for feedback on how close to home your analysis hits.
Well, I dated this person for 2-1/2 months and had the misfortune of falling in love with him (prior to me really becoming astrology-educated --- think if I'd known anything about astrology beforehand, I would've steered clear of him)and we no longer talk so I probably don't know him well enough to comment accurately on everything, but, that being said, he doesn't show anger at all. In fact, can't deal with anyone who displays anger. Just runs from it, which makes sense considering the abuse by his father. So your comment about repressed anger due to an Aries moon in the 8th seems accurate (I also have the same moon placement and sign and would have to say that assessment seems to apply to me too). His mother was also agoraphobic and he seemed to have no to little relationship with his mother, could this also be indicated by an 8th house moon?
It does seem like he has forgiven his father (all his Pisces stuff). I remember when he first told me about him he sort of back-pedaled and was like, I don't want you to get the wrong idea, my father has done everything for me, I owe him so much.
But it's a combination of reverence and fear related to his dad it seems, but that would apply to a lot of abuse victims I would think and wouldn't be related to his chart in any way.
As for workaholism, he does take his work very seriously and most of his panic-disorder episodes seem work-related. As for procrastination, yes in personal projects (he was remodeling his house and not progressing very far on it and had pretty much given up all together).
He is artistic, likes to draw but hadn't done much of that in recent years. Just started getting interested in music 2 years ago and although he doesn't play an instrument, he had the most amazing ability to know/memorize lyrics. Like any lyric, he was like a human jukebox, constantly quoting lyrics. He says he just sees them/hears them in his head, he makes no effort to remember them. Honest to god, his ability as it relates to this was freakish/genius. I told him he had Asperger's syndrome, b/c that's how unbelievable it was.
As for rebellion, has a motorcycle, very unconventional lifestyle, pretty irresponsible. Definitely likes his freedom. Was married to a woman who he had been involved with since 19 and they divorced a couple of years ago. He had cheated on her with a couple of women and eventually his wife cheated on him and left him for the other man. He seems unable to get over this, even though he acknowledges that his behavior contributed to the demise of the marriage. His general attitude, which eventually led to us breaking up, is that he will be with whomever he wants, whenever he wants. He claims to be anti-commitment which he didn't come across at first and I certainly wouldn't have gotten involved with him if he had told me that in the beginning. It was my experience with him that led me to start brushing up on astrology to get a better understanding of him and our relationship. It turns out in synastry that my Venus squares his Sun, Saturn, Venus, Uranus and Pluto. Hmm, it's not surprising then that we didn't last
Still, very disappointing. I think he is a very special person and I thought we made a good couple.
Anyway, you called him an empath - not exactly sure what that is, but he certainly claimed to be able to "feel" what other people were feeling. This kind of scared me because he once said I didn't have a heart and it made me wonder if that was true. I certainly feel like I have a lot of feelings, although I wasn't showing them a lot since he had indicated he didn't want an exclusive relationship.
You mentioned dropping out significators, not sure what that means. He is a big drinker and a pot smoker, has done other drugs in the past. Guess he is trying to escape both his childhood stuff and the failure of his marriage which he can't let go.
As for religion, no, he wasn't raised in a religious household. Has recently started to read a lot of Buddhist stuff.
Other factors about him: he needs a lot of attention and told me so when we first met; his straying from his wife seems to be ego-based, rather than a true rejection of his wife; I think he's one of those people that can't turn down the attention of any woman and also seeks the attention of every woman. He said he had a strong desire to save someone. I would see that with the large tips he gave young waitresses, he seemed to have waitress-fetish and I think it goes back to saving someone and having power over someone.
Just out of curiosity since you seem pretty astute at chart interpretation, would your advice to women be to steer clear of him? The whole Venus opposite Uranus aspect of his, etc.?
Anyway, I've written too much. Thanks again.
Dakota