Well even though internet dating can be easily teased/criticized, among your Ven's many supportive aspects is a PentaYod (144-72-144) with Uran and Nept so if anyone can safely navigate those waters, it'd be you subject, of course, to your two-mentioned 150's and that Ven 45 Sat (which can indicate a conflict betw vulernability and commitment).
and, yes, since your Merc is in that to die fer 60-120-60 triangle with the Moon and Jup, you may be batting an IQ ball out of the park where your dates have trouble catching up.
If you "do" the charts of your dates, look for someone whose personal planet(s) quadrangulate your triangle by trine or sexitle (e.g., anyone with personal planets at 11 to 15 Libra will create with you a synastric Kite which may make you feel like your IQ triangle is finally flying in tandem.