I was actually thinking about what you said, Chillaxer, and indeed, i mentalize too much. I mean, approaching someone is basically a scientific project that takes a time to analyse and consider. But in situations where my mental state is disturbed (like drunk, for instance -- in my country people are aloud to drink since 18), things just happens. The problem is: how to just let go in a healthy way and without external help. Thank you for your enlightment.
Glad to help.
I know what you mean, logic gets in the way of instinct.
I also just noticed those 12th house planets, they are worth looking at.
With the moon in the 12th in Pisces, you may have (possibly subconsciously)quite reclusive, spiritual, solitary instincts.
So it maybe that sometimes you end up alone, again, kind of through your own tendencies rather than other peoples willingness to engage?
Then there is the Saturn, this is a key planet for manifesting sense of 'restriction' in people's lives. It is also interestingly placed right near the Ascendant, so, in my view, it may carry aspects from both houses or blending of acting in both the 12th and on the Ascendant.
It's in Aries, which is the self, the 'I am' sign of projection in the chart, so there may be sense of fear and limitation(Saturn and 12th)with your self projection and image, a limitation around self-assertion, which affects your Asc, your basic approach.
The Aries part in the 12th suggests maybe subconscious self-defeating limitations in your persona, however; T
The Saturn on the Ascendant in Aries ends with a positive, because Saturn 'delays but does not deny'.
It suggests you have to wait or work hard to find that authentic, or more effective, self projection and approach.
[This is off at a tangent, but Aries is again a barren sign, it's quite interesting to me that these signs could influence your sexuality on some deep level as in not wanting to conceive being linked to lesbianism, but that is my own more speculative and abstract theory. I hope that doesn't offend you.]
Aries is has 'me first' flavour, so in the 12th, it could be again in keeping with the theme that subconsciously, you are actually more inclined to your own needs and self-interest and/or being alone than you realise, and so this affects your relationships.
On the end of the 12th/ascendant with Saturn, it may be that you come over as slightly austere, harsh and self-possessed/controlled to people, or maybe quite intense. It might combine with the mental theme I mentioned in the last post to mean that people don't feel flirting or initiating is easy with you.
This is worth looking at-
http://www.alwaysastrology.com/saturn-in-aries.html
I would re-emphasise, that whilst Saturn and Chiron are symptomatic of problems, they also bestow learning and gifts with time.
I think with your north node and emphasis on what we talked about, you shouldn't necessarily 'fight' these 'mental' elements, maybe try and understand what going on subconsciously and become more aware, and then get in perspective.
I still don't think there's anything much wrong in the 7th/8th sectors, and this along with the Saturn and Chiron themes your chart does just suggest getting a bit older and having more serious relationships are a stronger area for you than the 5th house type relationships that are somewhat correlated with younger ages where people want less commitment.
Jupiter rules part of your 8th, and is in the 10th, so maybe meeting someone at work and forming a deep relationship this way is where luck is to be found. This also ties in with being able to meet someone in a more natural way, and hence spontaneity being easier. Sagittarius and Jupiter are spontaneous and intuitive.
I think it's also worth looking at your part of fortune, this is a good energy point which can manifest positivity that flows to other areas of your life.
I'm not 100% sure I worked it out right, but looking at your chart it seems to be that your sun and moon are half the chart apart, and your POF would be conjunct the Descendant in Libra, this couldn't be more fortunate for relationships so it doesn't fit with your problem(but may explain why relationships are a focus) But it may emphasise this 'falling at the first hurdle' thing being your problem.