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Unread 09-13-2020, 04:33 PM
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Are we compatible?

here’s the synastry chart:
EDIT: its just a celebrity crush lol. nothing illegal or gross like that
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Re: Are we compatible?

Compatible for what?

If you mean romantically compatible, it can't happen. You are 12 going on 13 and he is 49. There's no jurisdiction on earth where a romantic relationship between you would be legal.

But I see why you would be attracted to him. Suns in opposition, Moons sextile by sign, Venuses in opposite signs, and his Moon in wide orb conjunction to your Venus (if the birth time you have for him is accurate), and your Moon trine his Venus, can certainly spell chemistry and attraction. If you were compatible ages, synastry like this could be a good match. You're not compatible by age, however. That overrules the astrological factors.

His Venus conjunct his Saturn, which also opposes your Venus by sign, seems to me to indicate the age difference being a barrier. Saturn represents older. Saturn also represents inflexibility and authoritarianism. Even if you could legally have a romantic relationship with him, it still would not be a good one, because you would be up against his being so much older, he would automatically take authority over you and you would automatically give it to him, and you would be disempowered. His Saturn being quincunx your Pluto speaks further to that.

Disempowerment in relationships is a pitfall you need to watch out for in general, even if you pursue one with someone your age. Pluto in your seventh house, and part of a cluster with your Sun, suggests that relationships are a power arena for you. You might find yourself strongly empowered by them, or you might feel compelled to give your power away to your partner, in which case the relationship would be extremely, extremely disempowering for you. As a general rule, relationships with a significant age difference run extra risk of being disempowering to the younger partner.

So, while it's generally not a good idea to get romantically involved with anyone much older while you're underage, it's really a bad idea for you. And it may be an extra strong temptation, with that Pluto configuration.
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Re: Are we compatible?

no, its a celebrity lol. its mark wahlberg! nothing gross and illegal like that lol
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Re: Are we compatible?

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no, its a celebrity lol. its mark wahlberg! nothing gross and illegal like that lol
So why are you asking if you're compatible with him?

I see why you have a celebrity crush on him. It's in your synastry: that Moon and Sun and Venus. But all it can be is a crush.
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yeah its just a celebrity crush i was just wanting to know what the synastry was like in the chart
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Re: Are we compatible?

That's why you're supposed to give the background when you ask a question.
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Re: Are we compatible?

So why him specifically? What is it you see in him that made you curious about a synastry?
You have Neptune on the midheaven. Dreams. Illusions. Film. Creativity.
And his north node and mars are sitting right there, stimulating your fantasy.
This sounds like falling in love with Fred Astaire because of the way he dances!
Dreamy and romantic. Posters with his photo in your room and your diary.
His Neptune is also on your descendent, further stimulating this type of "falling in love with love" with him just as the object totally in your imagination.
His sun squares your Uranus, so as quickly as this crush came on it will burst!
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