love-thinking
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Can we discuss what aspects make someone attract good people as lovers and friends and what aspects cause another to attract terrible people as friends and lovers?
I also think that attracting negative people comes down to self esteem. I would look at how strong the Sun is in addition to what Lin said, especially for hetro women or any one attracted to male energy.
Also transits and progressions. e.g. I've noticed a definite pattern when Neptune is squaring my Sun. Types of people I've never attracted prior to that came in waves.
I already have Neptune trine Sun so this is hardly a problem to me, because if I'm fooled, I've already been fooled since forever. I already knew how to deal with that kind of energy.Also transits and progressions. e.g. I've noticed a definite pattern when Neptune is squaring my Sun. Types of people I've never attracted prior to that came in waves.
Also transits and progressions. e.g. I've noticed a definite pattern when Neptune is squaring my Sun. Types of people I've never attracted prior to that came in waves.
When a planet goes retrograde it steps the same degree twice, so you can have the same aspect twice in a relatively short time span.Wait, what? You sound like there's been many times that your Neptune has squared your Sun. Isn't Neptune a very slow moving planet?
When a planet goes retrograde it steps the same degree twice, so you can have the same aspect twice in a relatively short time span.
Wait, what? You sound like there's been many times that your Neptune has squared your Sun. Isn't Neptune a very slow moving planet?
Eh.. what is good and bad anyways. It's all a matter of perspective so it's hard to say. You attract what you are and what you can offer, so if you attract bad friends or lovers maybe its time to look within and see why xD
How's that true when codependents/empaths attract narcissists quite a lot?
Yeap, a planet only touches twice the exact degree/longitude where it was placed before engaging "retrograde" motion. I.E. My Saturn return hit me three times, tr Saturn engaged retro motion some degrees ahead natal Saturn. But when tr Chiron was on my DSC it went retrograde when it was still close to my DSC. Chiron transiting my DSC only hit me twice, though the first hit lasted longer.Actually, in some cases, a retrograde planet touches the same degree 3 times, not 2. Neptune takes about a year to go through the retrograde cycle with a span of about 3 degrees.