Waiting42long
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I've been working with this colleague for a decade now. Only a small percentage of his work is in my firm, so to say, which means that the time I see him weekly can be counted in minutes.
Here's how it all started.
So, even thought I don't know his time of birth I'm posting our chats in hope you can told me if we're compatible. If I ended my relationship would I be happier with my colleague?
Sorry for the long post. Thank you for reading it.
Here's how it all started.
Last year in June he suggested we go to a conference together. I accepted it and we went to the capital, listened to what was there. We went by car, he drove, went to a mall afterwards, had a very pleasant time. After that when we saw each other we said hi to each other like colleagues do, or had a small insignificant work related talk.
This year he suggested we go to another conference, only this time abroad. The organization he has found online funded our flight, he had a friend who lived there, so the friend provided us each with a room, drove us to the metro, fed us. That man and his wife were amazing hosts and are wonderful people. We had the time of our lives there, the conference was fine, the city itself is one of the most beautiful cities in the world. We saw many attractions, laughed a lot. On the very last day of our trip he asked me what my boyfriend though about us going to the City of lights together, how long we are together etc. There were indications here and there that he likes me. He indirectly even told me.
When we came back we exchanged the photos over the internet, texted each other over viber. We didn't talk much in person. Sometimes he would talk to me a lot a day before he saw me and then when he actually saw me he would ignore me and just say hi or something silly. I have initiated the conversations more that he did. We had a meeting a few days ago and then he went with another colleague to a coffee shop where I practically invited myself and we talked there and were the last two left. And he got close to me and started suggesting we travel together somewhere again. The next day he just greeted me.
This year he suggested we go to another conference, only this time abroad. The organization he has found online funded our flight, he had a friend who lived there, so the friend provided us each with a room, drove us to the metro, fed us. That man and his wife were amazing hosts and are wonderful people. We had the time of our lives there, the conference was fine, the city itself is one of the most beautiful cities in the world. We saw many attractions, laughed a lot. On the very last day of our trip he asked me what my boyfriend though about us going to the City of lights together, how long we are together etc. There were indications here and there that he likes me. He indirectly even told me.
When we came back we exchanged the photos over the internet, texted each other over viber. We didn't talk much in person. Sometimes he would talk to me a lot a day before he saw me and then when he actually saw me he would ignore me and just say hi or something silly. I have initiated the conversations more that he did. We had a meeting a few days ago and then he went with another colleague to a coffee shop where I practically invited myself and we talked there and were the last two left. And he got close to me and started suggesting we travel together somewhere again. The next day he just greeted me.
So, even thought I don't know his time of birth I'm posting our chats in hope you can told me if we're compatible. If I ended my relationship would I be happier with my colleague?
Sorry for the long post. Thank you for reading it.
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