Immediately my eyes went to that angular mercury in Capricorn. Do you try to control the scene with your speech, and speak really slowly and methodically? Sometimes a strong Mercury in Capricorn (which you have my dear) can bring to the fore the more ambitious side of Capricorn. Mercury is kind of a light, jovial planet, and wants to flirt and spin about. Combine this with a slow, methodical, ambitious sign, make it conjunct an angle, and your bound to have issues with how you communicate. Your mind is brilliant, but speaking too slowly, making sure you punctuate each word, coming across as severe and well immensely capricornian (and I feel for you here because I have a lot of capricorn), can not bode well in social situations. I'm sure you're a slow talker who takes pride in what you have to say. Remember you're not always the authority! Lighten up! While this aspect you have here is AMAZING if you have to be in charge, especially in a crisis situation, its no wonder people might find you to be boring or defensive. Mercury plods along in ambitious capricorn. You're probably excellent at organizing, and people really trust your judgement and abilities. That said, work on that sly capricorn sense of humor (it's there, i bet you can come up with some great ultra-dry sarcastic comebacks or great puns), and try not to get defensive. The world is not out to get you... you might be out to get it! (Admit it cappy) You've got this mercury conjunct, albeit a very happily placed Jupiter in Sagittarius, but this can create an almost too philosophical approach to everyday conversation, especially because it is in the 3rd house. You've got sag in the house of gemini, so you might find yourself longing for more lofty conversations in an everyday atmosphere. While this expands those cappy mental faculties exceptionally, Capricorn energy definitely rules here, so you may take this philosophical bend in your thinking and come across to others as some sort of religious evangelist or dictatorial. Great for business but not so much socializing! Be careful not to treat everyone like children or offer advice when it is not needed. Moreover, because of this Jupiter-Neptune-Mercury conjunction you have, don't gloss over the problems of others if they reveal them to you. Have you ever had a friend sort of side-step you when you try to talk about something intimate with them? You have a tendency to be distant or dreamy in your communication and this only highlights that Cappy quality which is aloof. This third house stellium is definitely asking you to learn about intimacy, especially an intellectual intimacy. Lastly, because all of these planets are making a sextile to your mars-pluto conjunction, try not to force this intimacy, or talk over people because you crave a powerful connection. You're smart, you're smart, you're smart. That pluto-mars conjunction is weird to me because even though Pluto is considered the higher octave of Mars, considering your chart as a whole you might want to pull more towards that Mars in Libra... which isn't such a happy placement for Libra... but for you in particular it will definitely help you learn diplomacy and tact... which is very much what your ego is looking for.
While the venus and Uranus conjunction doesn't effect your mercury, it does effect your moon, so it does tie back into communication in a strong way. Your emotions are erratic, though perhaps you attempt to glamorize them in some way. Don't hide your moodiness behind a false front of trying to people please. It is better to deal with this connection realistically: you are moody and tempermental. You can definitely charm others but you blow hot and cold. I recommend you start communicating this quality about yourself to others, up front. I think it is this aspect in particular that's pushing people away. Venus conjunct Uranus is an interesting pair. Try not to be brusque with people, especially those who frustrate you intellectually, or won't do precisely what you want. Like I said you're really SMART. Something in this chart indicates to me that you are secretly insecure about your intelligence, and thus come across in an overbearing way about it. YOU'RE VERY SMART GIRLY!
Are you an artist? Please say yes. You're talented, deep, and richly engaged with passionate emotions. You'd make an excellent dramatic writer or poet. I'm sure you are BEAUTIFUL.
On a final note, the interesting thing about your chart is the house/sign reversal paired with the south node/north node. You have a stellium in the house of your south node, with a conjunction to that pesky venus-uranus pair. This is my thinking: lighten up and flirt and don't make anything of anything! Just carelessly flirt. (I know it's a bizarre concept to me too) Get to know people on a BASIC level. Don't go off and start thinking philosophically (I prefer that as well)
I feel for you on a lot of these things. Work that Libra ascendant!
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