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Unread 03-17-2008, 03:02 PM
serenity serenity is offline
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Red face Can you help me?

I need your help.. I am in a relationship with a boy..We have been together for 4 years... We planed to get married next year..but right now we have some problems...I want you to tell me something about the future of these relationship.. And if you think he is "the one"for me..if he is not, than.. I will love somebody else soon?
Please tell me everything you can..
Me: Dana Maria 07.09.1984 12:30 pm Pitesti, Romania
He: Bogdan 26.06.1984 13:00 (1 pm) Pitesti, Romania
Thank you very much for your answers!

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Unread 03-18-2008, 08:29 AM
El_Nagual El_Nagual is offline
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Re: Can you help me?

Since getting married is a very serious desition, and you already have a four year relationship to think of. You have to be very honest to yourself about this. If you feel you can get in this relationship with all you heart then no astrological advice is needed. Remember that every relationship has little everyday problems to solve, relationships without problems are dead.

Acordingly to your chart, being a Virgo and a Scorpio Ascendant I think your main problem with Bogdan is that he tends to irritate you a lot sometimes, so if you love him strongly enough to undestand him better and accept him like he is, you should be fine.

Any way, after reviewing your charts, Dana Maria and Bodgan seem to be better on a friendship or project partnership than on a marital relationship.

I add down a synastry report for you to read and maybe other astrologers can bring more light to this matter.

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ASPECTS FROM DANA MARIA TO BOGDAN


Dana's Moon Square Bogdan's Mars
Orb 126' Separating
In astrology Mars is the planet of drive and determination whereas the Moon is the planet of feelings. When these two planets form certain patterns the combination can be volatile. In this case there is a lot of friction in the relationship. Dana is likely to feel overpowered by Bogdan. Dana often wonders why she is so easily upset by Bogdan. No matter how hard she tries to calm her emotions Bogdan just seems to trigger heated feelings. Dana feels a strong attraction to Bogdan, but she is also aware that this is a troubled association. It is likely that Dana believes that Bogdan lacks sensitivity to her feelings. Bogdan also senses the friction, but is perhaps not so bothered by it. Bogdan is more concerned because at times Dana seems like a wet blanket. Bogdan's patience is tested because he feels that he has to console Dana's feelings before he can achieve his goals in life. Bogdan also feels a certain excitement in this association, but is aware that the tension can be an obstacle to fulfilment. If both Dana and Bogdan are aware of the problems and face them with honesty then an understanding can be reached and a rewarding relationship result. When this occurs both Dana and Bogdan begin to feel that their lives have become more effervescent with the advent of this relationship. This combination is most difficult for a deeply personal relationship such as marriage or a close personal friendship. It can be advantageous for a working relationship that requires a lot of hard work and energy. For instance, building a house together may be a good way of using the energy of this combination.

Dana's Moon Square Bogdan's Saturn
Orb 330' Separating
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn and a personal planet such as the Moon is important, enabling the relationship to be long lasting. However, this can also be a difficult connection. Dana and Bogdan can both suffer from feelings of discontent and insecurity within this union. They work hard to cover up their sense that some emotional warmth is lacking, but there are times when they despair of getting their needs met. Dana feels this lack of emotional warmth keenly. It is difficult for her to relax and feel truly appreciated in this relationship. Bogdan brings a certain coldness to the union, finding it difficult to generate emotional warmth. Bogdan may feel that his attempts at intimacy are misunderstood and met with an overly-emotional reaction from Dana. Much work needs to be done in order to understand each other. On a positive note this combination of planets can indicate a committed to resolve difficulties. Therefore Dana and Bogdan have the strong possibility of being able to stay in this relationship on a long-term basis and reap the rewards of a stable and secure union. A satisfying relationship can result from Dana's and Bogdan's patience and persistence.

Dana's Moon Sextile Bogdan's Uranus
Orb 250' Separating
The saying 'expect the unexpected' could be applied to this combination of Dana and Bogdan's planets. There is an element of excitement and adventure when Dana and Bogdan get together. They both enjoy the thrill of being in each other's company exploring new territories together. Many relationships start with the thrill and ardour of romance only to have it fade with the routine of daily life. However, Dana and Bogdan know how to keep the exhilaration for the long term. In particular Dana is very attracted to Bogdan, acknowledging that Bogdan adds a lot of spice to her life. She feels life is more joyful since she has met Bogdan. Dana may be the one to nurture some of Bogdan's more adventurous plans or she may simply enjoy going along for the ride. Bogdan feels that Dana gives him companionship and comfort prompting him to new heights of innovative ideas and activities. It's possible that both Dana and Bogdan enjoy an unusual and innovative hobby or work project. This is a fun combination for a personal union, but will need other connections between two people's planets to cement a long-term intimate relationship. This combination is also ideal for less personal relationships such as friendships or a working project that requires creative and innovative ideas.

Dana's Moon Semisquare Bogdan's Neptune
Orb 129' Applying
Romance is a major theme in a union that involves the Moon and the planet Neptune. With this combination of planets Dana and Bogdan both feel that they are meant to be together. Perhaps they believe that it is a union of their souls. This is the height of romantic love. However, with romantic love there is always the possibility of disillusionment. Dana and Bogdan are likely to stumble across obstacles in this relationship because of unrealistic and overly idealistic expectations of each other. It is difficult for them to maintain the heights of love first attained at the beginning of the relationship. Misunderstandings can easily arise. After the first flush of love Dana feels that her emotional needs are being ignored, that Bogdan does not understand her. It is even possible that Dana feels that Bogdan is being deceptive in some manner. There is a danger that Bogdan does feel the need to hide behind a facade, failing to be his true self. Perhaps Bogdan feels that he cannot live up to Dana's expectations. Despair within this relationship needs to be avoided by both Dana and Bogdan facing their feelings of loss in previous relationships. They need to face the problems honestly in order to avoid the breakdown of trust and ultimately the relationship. As a result Dana and Bogdan may be able to recapture their sense of belonging together which was so strong in the initial stages of their union.

Dana's Moon Trine Bogdan's North Node
Orb 700' Separating
Both the Moon and the Nodes individually are significant in relationship astrology. The combination of the Moon and the Nodes indicates that this is an important personal relationship, one that changes the course of Dana's life and deeply affects Bogdan. Dana and Bogdan feel strongly drawn to each other, perhaps experiencing a sense that their relationship was written in the stars. In other words they may feel as though they were destined to meet and form a union. Whether the path of this relationship is smooth or rough, Dana and Bogdan's paths were meant to cross. The nature of this association depends largely on other aspects of Dana and Bogdan's charts. Passion may ignite if the right ingredients are involved, or friendship may be most appropriate choice of relationship.




Dana's Sun Sextile Bogdan's Mars
Orb 259' Separating
This combination of the Sun and the planet Mars is a positive one for a working partnership that calls for concentrated effort on a joint project. It also ignites a strong sexual spark for a personal relationship, one that continues to flare throughout the union. It is an exciting combination. There is never a dull moment when Dana and Bogdan are together. They love and fight with energy. Dana and Bogdan are hard working and energetic, achieving more together than they can on their own. Together Dana and Bogdan are able to tackle most of life's challenges with confidence and a positive attitude, taking the initiative, rather than sitting back and waiting for things to happen. Together they also enjoy taking few risks in life, particularly ones that satisfy their sense of adventure. They need only be wary of becoming too impulsive, of taking unnecessary risks that lead to dangerous ground. Dana feels that Bogdan provides the impetus and drive to help achieve her full potential. Dana is aware that her personality also helps Bogdan achieve his goals. Bogdan is excited by Dana's powerful personality and is inspired in his ambitions. This is certainly a progressive relationship that makes an impact on both Dana and Bogdan and those around them.

Dana's Sun Trine Bogdan's Jupiter
Orb 629' Separating
The Sun and the favourable planet Jupiter are combining suggesting that this relationship is blessed with good fortune and happiness. It is an ideal combination for an intimate relationship such as marriage because it indicates shared philosophies on life and the ability to grow together. Together Dana and Bogdan land on their feet no matter how difficult a situation. They seem destined to be in the right place at the right time. Dana and Bogdan enjoy each other's company, feeling all of the benefits that come with this union. Their optimism and enthusiasm are infectious, and as a couple they are popular. In particular Dana shines as a result of her association with Bogdan. Dana feels able to embrace life and all it has to offer. She is aware that her union with Bogdan is truly blessed and that it helps her to achieve her full potential. Bogdan knows that his horizons are continually expanding through his association with Dana. Bogdan feels able to conquer the world. In fact it is likely that both Dana and Bogdan enjoy travelling, studying or teaching together. They enjoy sharing anything that expands their minds and contributes positively to their lives.

Dana's Sun Square Bogdan's Uranus
Orb 423' Separating
This is a relationship full of verve and romance, particularly in the first throes of love. Dana and Bogdan are attracted to each other from the moment that they first meet and continue to experience excitement and joy in each other's company. Despite this sense of adventure, Dana and Bogdan may have trouble maintaining a committed, long-term relationship. This combination of the Sun and the planet Uranus suggest more an erratic and thrilling relationship, rather than a stable one. The initial enthusiasm can fade as Dana and Bogdan begin to experience the need to accommodate each other's needs and desires in this union. Dana and Bogdan are each determined to maintain their individuality, which can present problems for any union that requires compromise. Dana and Bogdan both want to do things their own way and become rebellious if the other person presents any obstacles. This is particularly true for Bogdan, who stresses his individuality and can be unwilling to adjust to the demands of a serious relationship. Bogdan does not want to be overridden by what he perceives as Dana's strong personality and may have problems showing a long-term commitment. Likewise Dana believes that Bogdan stands in the way of her expressing her true nature. On a more positive note this association brings something new and original into Dana and Bogdan's lives and they both feel enlivened as a result. The long-term success of this union may depend on other connections between Dana and Bogdan's astrology charts.

Dana's Sun Semisquare Bogdan's Pluto
Orb 037' Separating
This combination of planets indicates a relationship that is life changing, whether it be a friendship, love union or work association. Both Dana and Bogdan feel a powerful attraction for each other in the initial stages of the relationship. It is as if they are both compelled to relate, perhaps even in response to strong opposition from outside sources. Once the exciting first stages of the union have passed, it is likely that both Dana and Bogdan become embroiled in a struggle for dominance. There is no longer an impetus for change and the challenge has become wearisome. Now Dana and Bogdan's relationship resembles a battleground in which both try to change the other. It is possible that these battles become emotionally abusive, perhaps even violent. It is important for both Dana and Bogdan to avoid senseless battles from which neither emerges triumphant. Money may be at the root of the problems, or it could be that sexual matters are a key theme in this relationship. Either way it is likely that Dana feels overwhelmed by this union to the point where she suffers from low self-esteem. There could be a tendency for Bogdan to try to bully Dana that may only make matters worse. Dana is faced with the challenge of delving deep into her personal resources to find a sense of self-value. Bogdan is a powerful force in this union and needs to learn how to use his power wisely.




Dana's Mercury Square Bogdan's Moon
Orb 100' Separating
Arguments can cause upset feelings in a relationship with this combination of planets. All types of associations can suffer some setbacks under this influence, but personal relationships are particularly fraught with difficulties. Friction seems to result no matter how Bogdan and Dana try to approach each other on intimate matters. Bogdan and Dana's relationship suffers because of unspoken problems, or perhaps either Bogdan or Dana speaks their mind too often. Either way the problem is communication. No matter how hard both Bogdan and Dana try they cannot seem to understand each other's way of seeing things and how each other feels. Bogdan communicates on an intuitive or feeling level whereas Dana is the more rational thinker. As a result Bogdan and Dana alternate between passion and rationality, having difficulty understanding the other person. Bogdan and Dana's behaviour seems at odds with their needs, and they do not seem to be able to comfortably settle down in the relationship. On a more positive note Bogdan and Dana may not mind a little friction in their intimate relationship. However, it's more likely that Bogdan and Dana would both do well to work on their communication skills. As a result Bogdan and Dana can develop skills which help to overcome the problems enabling them to better understand each other.

Dana's Mercury Trine Bogdan's Neptune
Orb 008' Separating
This is an inspirational relationship whether it be a romance, friendship or a creative working partnership. Both Dana and Bogdan feel excited by this union. Their imaginations are enlivened. In particular Dana's ideas are encouraged by Bogdan's creative input, enabling her to better express herself. It's possible that they work together on a creative project. Communication has an easy flow, more intuitive than concrete. Dana and Bogdan establish an empathetic bond which enables them both to exchange their thoughts and feelings with ease. If involved in a romantic liaison then Dana and Bogdan are likely to feel very much in love, viewing their union through rose-coloured glasses. Whatever the nature of the relationship, it is likely that Dana and Bogdan share an interest in the arts, a spiritual path or a philanthropic activity.

Dana's Mercury Sextile Bogdan's Pluto
Orb 040' Separating
An intense relationship is the result of this combination of the planets Mercury and Pluto, with communication playing a key role. Consequently it is vital that both Dana and Bogdan communicate honestly, keeping all emotions and thoughts out in the open. This helps them to keep the relationship dynamic rather than volcanic. If Dana and Bogdan enjoy penetrating discussions and passionate pastimes then all is well. If they don't then their union could become overwhelming, particularly for Dana. Together they experience a change of perception which is ultimately rewarding, although initially could be disruptive. Notably Bogdan challenges Dana's way of viewing the world. This can be an excellent combination for personal and spiritual growth. Consequently it is an ideal combination for a therapist and client relationship. It can also be beneficial for an intimate relationship or friendship, if both partners enjoy intensity, and a demanding working association.




Dana's Venus Trine Bogdan's Moon
Orb 636' Applying
Compatibility is the key theme to this combination of personal planets. This is an ideal combination for an intimate relationship. Bogdan and Dana feel comfortable with each other, confident that they understand each other's feelings and share a common bond. They may even feel that they have found their soul-mate, someone who understands them at a deep level and in whose company they take great pleasure. It's likely that Bogdan and Dana have a lot in common and enjoy sharing their personal life and pastimes. Romance is at the heart of this relationship. Bogdan and Dana delight in spending time together pursuing artistic pleasures, visiting the theatre, art galleries, concert halls and other such outings. Perhaps one of them or both take part in an artistic pursuit. Bogdan and Dana enjoy picnics in picturesque and romantic surroundings, and perhaps entertaining guests in their own aesthetic surroundings. Money may also play an important role in this relationship. Together Bogdan and Dana enjoy making and spending money. They are comfortable with the decisions that they make together regarding money. There is a lot of love being shared in this relationship prompting co-operation and a certain sense of harmony. While this combination is ideal for an intimate relationship, it is also a positive one for friends, associates in the community, work colleagues and family members. It augurs well for any long-term relationship.

Dana's Venus Square Bogdan's Sun
Orb 241' Separating
This combination of the Sun and the personal planet Venus in relationship astrology is a difficult one. It indicates that the two people have conflicting values when it comes to personal relationships, which creates problems for any long-term association. Bogdan and Dana feel a strong attraction to each other, but they cannot seem to communicate in a harmonious manner. Joint decisions about relationships are difficult. Bogdan and Dana argue about subjects such as the future of their relationship, family associations, money matters and creative pastimes. They just can't seem to agree. Bogdan feels frustrated. On the one hand Bogdan is drawn to Dana. On the other hand Bogdan knows that he is losing his identity in this relationship, and is often floundering to express himself. Dana is also frustrated. She feels overwhelmed by Bogdan's powerful personality and is unable to get on with her creative pursuits. Neither Bogdan nor Dana really feels that they are benefiting from this union, and yet they feel drawn to try to resolve the problems. Depending on other connections in this relationship Bogdan and Dana may finally decide to end their association or they could resolve their differences. They may need to seek counsel on how to resolve their differences.

Dana's Venus Square Bogdan's Mercury
Orb 123' Separating
A positive blend of the personal planets of Mercury and Venus is a desirable one for an intimate union, and certainly advantageous to any association that requires harmony and collaboration. Therefore it is unfortunate that this combination is a difficult one. This association of planets indicates incompatibility in a relationship. No matter how hard Bogdan and Dana try they find it hard to relax in each other's company. Disharmony seems to infiltrate their union at every turn. The problem is that Bogdan and Dana simply cannot find any common ground for agreement. Their opinions and values clash, which makes any shared activities fraught with tension. In particular Dana feels that she is subjected to Bogdan's unnecessary criticism. Dana feels unappreciated and lonely, unable to share warm and loving moment required in her relationship. On the other hand Bogdan believes that he cannot express his opinions freely without being misunderstood. Bogdan loses confidence in his communication abilities and possibly withdraws his attention from the relationship. The extent of the difficulties in this relationship depends on other aspects of Bogdan and Dana's association. The positive side is that Bogdan and Dana are attracted to each and can work towards improving their communication skills. In this way they may learn to value each other.

Dana's Venus Square Bogdan's Venus
Orb 012' Separating
A love relationship can both benefit and be adversely affected by this combination of the planets Venus. Ancient astrologers considered the planet Venus to have most beneficial effects and this can be seen clearly in relationship astrology. Both Dana and Bogdan are attracted to each other, seeing the very best of themselves reflected in the other person. On the whole they enjoy each other's company, making the most of their joint interests. Dana and Bogdan are likely to enjoy various pleasurable outings ranging from alfresco meals to visits to the theatre. However problems arise once the initial attraction wears off and they start to disagree on how their relationship should be approached e.g. the blend of freedom and closeness, intellect and emotion, personal time and social activities to name a few. Then it is more difficult for Dana and Bogdan to make the most of their relationship. Their success in overcoming these difficulties depends on other aspects of their relationship. This combination is more common in love relationship, but can also indicate a friendship.

Dana's Venus Square Bogdan's Jupiter
Orb 051' Applying
Love and excitement are strong themes of this relationship. Both Dana and Bogdan feel a strong attraction and enjoy many pleasurable activities. Together Dana and Bogdan enjoy good fortune, exploring the realms of higher learning, culture, religion or metaphysics. They may delight in travelling to foreign lands, meeting new people and discovering different ways of life. Alternatively they may take delight in joining a study group closer to home. Initially this union expands their horizons and the attraction is strong. It is difficult for Dana and Bogdan to remain committed to each other, unless there are other indications of commitment in their association. The trouble is that Bogdan cannot seem to settle down, always looking for new horizons. He wants romance and excitement on a grand scale and expects Dana to join in. Dana also wants romance, but needs the security of commitment. Bogdan does not want to make a commitment. Bogdan enjoys his freedom and cannot understand why Dana is so insecure about their relationship. As the relationship progresses Bogdan becomes more impatient which in turn increases Dana's insecurities. Unless there are other aspects of the relationship, which indicate commitment and stability, this union, is likely to falter on rocky ground.

Dana's Venus Sextile Bogdan's Uranus
Orb 257' Applying
This combination of planets indicates an instant and vital magnetism. It is the type of attraction in which Dana and Bogdan take one look at each other across a crowded room and feel the sparks. Romance is alight and the relationship develops at a rapid rate. Friends are amazed as the couple's union becomes more and more intense. In the short term this relationship provides fun, excitement and stimulation for both Dana and Bogdan. The long-term scenario depends on other aspects of their relationship and the ability of both Dana and Bogdan to respect each other's need for autonomy. It is all too easy for the initial flame to burn out of control. For this reason this combination of planets can be more prominent in relationships that contain the intrigue of a love affair, rather than the stability of a long-term union. Dana feels particularly struck by Cupid's arrow, ignited by the very presence of Bogdan. She wants her love to be strong enough to keep the spark of excitement in the relationship. However, Bogdan is hard to pin down and is likely to become bored once the initial excitement starts to fade unless he is given plenty of room to be independent. It may be difficult for Bogdan to make a commitment to this relationship unless he is given the freedom to inspire Dana without feeling tied down to promises. A strong bond can be achieved if Dana and Bogdan can find the right balance between intimacy and personal freedom. If this is achieved then they can both enjoy a long-term relationship full of joy and romance.

Dana's Venus Trine Bogdan's Chiron
Orb 212' Separating
Together Dana and Bogdan have opportunities to heal the painful experiences of previous relationships and forge a strong and loving bond. This is an important union. When an intimate bond is formed, the love can soothe emotional pain and bring a sense of freedom and joy. On the other hand it can also reinforce a person's wounds, sending them into emotional turmoil and forming negative relationship patterns. In this case Dana and Bogdan have a chance to overcome their old relationing habits through their love for each other. They may even help each other view their childhood experiences in a different light. This is true whether they are lovers or friends. Dana's love is particularly soothing for Bogdan, encouraging him to discover new talents. In return Bogdan teaches Dana the benefits of a warm and loving relationship.

Dana's Venus Trine Bogdan's North Node
Orb 113' Separating
This is the combination for lovers. The North Node and Venus are both highly significant in relationship astrology indicating that this association was written in the stars. It is also likely that Dana and Bogdan are in love, desiring to form a close and romantic bond, rather than remain friends only. Passion, romantic love and an intense desire to relate are central to this relationship. Within moments of meeting Dana and Bogdan feel they have known each other for years. They enjoy each other's company, discovering pleasures in common. If circumstances dictate that their relationship can only be a friendship, they would be wise to tread very carefully. This is not an association to take lightly. It could easily take over Dana or Bogdan's lives. In some circumstances this combination of Venus and the North Node can indicate an association formed for artistic or creative projects.

Dana's Venus Conjunction Bogdan's Ascendant
Orb 758' Applying
It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case Dana's Venus is combining with Bogdan's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant personal relationship. Dana and Bogdan feel strongly drawn to each other, experiencing a sense of completeness in each other's company. Dana is in love with Bogdan, wanting to enjoy pleasurable activities and intimate moments. She appreciates the benefits that this union brings into her life. This relationship brings a wealth of benefits for Dana. In turn Bogdan has a greater sense of well-being through his association with Dana. He appreciates Dana's love of intimacy and her attitude to this union. Together they share a mutual respect and affection. While this combination is most likely to indicate an intimate love union, it can also augur well for friendships, family relationship and work associations.




Dana's Mars Conjunction Bogdan's Uranus
Orb 113' Separating
Sexual attraction plays a key role in this relationship. Dana and Bogdan find each other's company exciting and feel compelled to explore an intimate relationship. They are aroused both in and out of the bedroom. The initial stages of the relationship are particularly stimulating, and the union continues to flourish as long as Dana and Bogdan give each other the freedom to follow their individual interests. The electric nature of Dana and Bogdan's association is such that they need time away from each other in order to slow down and experiences some tranquillity in their separate lives. This is not a peaceful or stable relationship but rather one that offers ongoing stimulation and change. For this reason the relationship may be short-lived, a thrilling adventure which soon loses it spark through a lack of commitment. However, other aspects of Dana and Bogdan's nature may provide the tenacity and steadiness needed for a long-term commitment. The challenge is to allow each other plenty of independence.

Dana's Mars Opposition Bogdan's North Node
Orb 523' Separating
The fiery planet Mars and the fateful North Node provides a powerful combination of forces. Dana and Bogdan are dynamite together. This can be positive in that together they can achieve their goals. However this union can also be a threat to their life goals if they allow their desires to take over. In some cases this union could threaten either Dana or Bogdan's safety. Violence, and violent situations, need to be avoided at all times. Passion may be a driving force in this liaison. Both Dana and Bogdan feel a strong attraction. A personal relationship may be fraught with difficulties. This combination may be better used in a partnership that works on an energetic, demanding or physically powerful project - one that involves plenty of hard work and challenges.




Dana's Jupiter Quincunx Bogdan's Moon
Orb 212' Applying
Although there can be some difficulties with this combination, on the whole this is a positive combination. Bogdan and Dana enjoy each other's company and feel a certain zest for life when together. Bogdan and Dana share a need for fun-filled adventures and the capability of achieving their goals. They both feel that the world is their oyster which is ready to explore together. This can include holidays in far-away places, adventure travel and also encompasses any activity which expands their minds and views of life. This is a meeting of higher-minds. Bogdan feels that Dana expands his horizons. Bogdan feels safe and appreciated in this relationship. Dana knows that Bogdan is a comrade in arms when it comes to fun and adventure. Dana knows that she is truly appreciated for her generosity and optimism. Together Bogdan and Dana can conquer the world. Nothing seems too far-fetched. And this is where problems can lie. It is possible that neither Bogdan nor Dana know when enough is enough. There is a saying that 'you can have too much of a good thing'. This is one of the underlying problems of this association. Bogdan and Dana need to make sure that they do not become too grandiose in their dreams. Overinflated ideas of their capabilities are not helpful and can lead both Bogdan and Dana into troubled waters. Another complication can arise if Bogdan and Dana do not share the same values, because morals and beliefs play an important role in this relationship. However, if Bogdan and Dana share the same beliefs and can exercise some restraint this can be a positive combination for a long-term relationship.

Dana's Jupiter Opposition Bogdan's Sun
Orb 144' Separating
The Sun and the favourable planet Jupiter are combining, suggesting that this relationship is blessed with good fortune and a happiness in the short term; however, a long-term relationship may be fraught with insecurities. Initially Bogdan and Dana feel a strong sense of togetherness, sharing many new and varied activities. Both Bogdan and Dana feel that the other person is contributing positively to their lives. They feel more alive within this union. Gradually the excitement wears off and they become aware that they have very different philosophies on life. Whereas once Bogdan felt that her life purpose was expanded by the forward moving energy of Dana, now he feels that Dana doesn't know when to stop. He becomes aware that Dana's values are very different and that this is hindering his ability to express his full potential. Dana was once excited by the strength of Bogdan's purpose in life. However, now Dana feels that her path is being blocked by Bogdan's stubborn personality. This combination brings benefits to the couple in the first throes of the relationship, but it is going to take work to maintain the relationship. The long-term success of this association depends on other connections between Bogdan and Dana.

Dana's Jupiter Opposition Bogdan's Mercury
Orb 547' Separating
This combination of the planets Mercury and Jupiter can indicate a relationship in which both Bogdan and Dana are inspired by the meeting of two minds. However, it is important that they show some restraint in their activities. When Bogdan and Dana get together they are both eager to discover new worlds. They enjoy broadening their minds through overseas travel or by learning about different cultures in books and study courses. Philosophy, metaphysics and religion are topics of conversation which stimulate and expand their minds. It is also possible that Bogdan and Dana pursue activities connected with philanthropic or philosophical ideologies. In moderation this can be beneficial to the relationship. However, there is a tendency towards grandiosity. Both Bogdan and Dana encourage each other to greater feats of learning or adventure without realising when it is time to call a halt. This can result in irresponsible behaviour. They also need to be wary of becoming too gullible in their efforts to follow a personal philosophical belief. It is important that both Bogdan and Dana learn to temper their activities.

Dana's Jupiter Opposition Bogdan's Venus
Orb 436' Separating
Love and excitement are strong themes of this relationship. Both Bogdan and Dana feel a strong attraction and enjoy many pleasurable activities. Together Bogdan and Dana enjoy good fortune, exploring the realms of higher learning, culture, religion or metaphysics. They may delight in travelling to foreign lands, meeting new people and discovering different ways of life. Alternatively they may take delight in joining a study group closer to home. Initially this union expands their horizons and the attraction is strong. It is difficult for Bogdan and Dana to remain committed to each other, unless there are other indications of commitment in their association. The trouble is that Dana cannot seem to settle down, always looking for new horizons. She wants romance and excitement on a grand scale and expects Bogdan to join in. Bogdan also wants romance, but needs the security of commitment. Dana does not want to make a commitment. Dana enjoys her freedom and cannot understand why Bogdan is so insecure about their relationship. As the relationship progresses Dana becomes more impatient which in turn increases Bogdan's insecurities. Unless there are other aspects of the relationship, which indicate commitment and stability, this union, is likely to falter on rocky ground.

Dana's Jupiter Conjunction Bogdan's Jupiter
Orb 515' Applying
A bountiful and loving relationship is the result of the strong influence of the planet Jupiter on this relationship. Ancient astrologers consider the planet Jupiter to be the great benefic, hence shining good fortune on this union whether it be a friendship, work association or romantic liaison. This relationship brings joy into the lives of both Dana and Bogdan. The attraction is strong, although not necessarily a sexual rapport. Dana and Bogdan share common goals and the impetus to explore these goals together. Their paths have crossed and it is more fun to continue their journey together. This can include journeys into the philosophical realms or adventures into other lands. Dana and Bogdan share the same beliefs, possibly even common religious beliefs. They bring out the best in each other. Together they also bring out the best in other people. As a result they attract much good fortune when they join forces. They are examples of the adage "lucky in love".

Dana's Jupiter Conjunction Bogdan's Neptune
Orb 320' Separating
This is a union of empathy and understanding, particularly in the areas of spiritual and religious beliefs. Both Dana and Bogdan understand and share each other's aspirations and dreams. At times their intuitive understanding of each other is so keen that they almost seem telepathically linked. It is possible that both Dana and Bogdan share a spiritual or religious conviction and belong to the same group or church. This may be a central force in their association. It is also possible that they take part in a philanthropic pursuit such as mission work in a foreign country or working for the same charitable organisation. Whatever the outlet for their beliefs, both Dana and Bogdan appreciate and enjoy each other's values, thus enabling them to better pursue a more altruistic path in life. Dana and Bogdan brighten each other's lives through their shared beliefs.




Dana's Saturn Trine Bogdan's Sun
Orb 710' Applying
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn and a personal planet such as the Sun is important, providing the cement for a long-lasting relationship. In other words a serious planet is needed for a serious, meaningful union such as marriage. It is certainly true that the combination of the Sun and Saturn is found in many, meaningful relationships. However, the harmful planet Saturn can also cause problems. The extent of the problems varies according to the astrological aspect. Certainly this combination indicates that Bogdan and Dana both view this as a serious association, whether it is a marriage, friendship or a working partnership. Both Bogdan and Dana are committed to their association. It is likely that they experienced a strong attraction in the initial stages of their relationship, and it is likely to be long lasting. When Bogdan and Dana first meet they each know they have discovered a potential serious relationship, one to which they can commit and build on over a lifetime. If they believe in reincarnation, then it is likely that they feel a karmic attraction, a moment of recognition when they first look into the other person's eyes. However, the very qualities, which they seriously considered as attractive in the initial stages of the relationship, can become the source of friction if they are not careful. In particular, Dana needs to be wary of becoming too critical and judgmental. Initially Dana found Bogdan's personality traits to be worthy of a committed union. She admired Bogdan's qualities as complementing her own. However, it is easy for Dana to forget this attraction. As the relationship develops she feels threatened by the force of Bogdan's personality and takes a superior attitude in defence. As a result Bogdan feels threatened, disliking the authoritarian side of Dana. If Bogdan is not careful his self-confidence is whittled away and the relationship becomes onerous. It is vital that both Bogdan and Dana work at developing a stable basis for communication and understanding in this relationship. If both Bogdan and Dana work at maintaining their own self-confidence as well as mutual respect then they have the makings for a very successful marriage or working relationship. If this is the case they both benefit from the stability offered by this union, growing in integrity in their own lives.
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Dana's Saturn Trine Bogdan's Mercury
Orb 307' Applying
This is an excellent combination for an enduring relationship. Both Bogdan and Dana share a mutual respect for each other and are willing to work towards sound communication. They take each other seriously, and are likely to share an interest in a thought-provoking pastime or a business enterprise. Shared values also mean that this relationship has firm foundations for the long term. Bogdan and Dana realise early in their association that this is a lasting union. Therefore it is likely that they slowly and surely get to know each other, rather than rushing headlong into a relationship. As a result they eventually form a strong bond. Bogdan respects and learns from Dana's wisdom. He is better able to communicate his own thoughts and ideas thanks to Dana's well-received advice. Dana's organisational abilities shine in this relationship. She discovers different methods of approaching activities through her association with Bogdan.

Dana's Saturn Trine Bogdan's Venus
Orb 418' Applying
The planet Saturn is an important ingredient in any committed relationship. This sombre planet can take away some of the short-term excitement of any union, but on a positive note it adds commitment and security needed for a long-term association. In other words Bogdan and Dana take this relationship seriously. They are devoted to each other and joyful in making promises that they are both able to keep. From the start of their association they enjoy taking their time getting to know each other, experiencing stability and understanding that grows slowly over time. They genuinely love each other and want to work towards a strong partnership. At times Bogdan would like more fun and spontaneity, but he appreciates Dana's wisdom in slowing things down in order to build a lasting union. Mutual respect is a central theme to this union. There is also a strong feeling of fate in this relationship. Bogdan and Dana may tell a story of how destiny meant for them to be together. While this combination of planets indicates a serious personal relationship, it can also be a positive influence on a partnership formed for the purpose of an artistic or creative project requiring both inspiration and hard work.

Dana's Saturn Conjunction Bogdan's Mars
Orb 009' Applying
Commitment is a central theme to this relationship. Bogdan and Dana are striving to build something concrete whether it be a future together or work project. Together they have the strength and wisdom to achieve a shared ambition. This is not a flighty association. Both Bogdan and Dana are aiming for a long-term and stable partnership. For this reason the union is likely to involve a contract, perhaps a business or marriage contract. There may also be a strong sense of destiny linked with this union. Bogdan contributes the drive and initiative and Dana possesses the stability and practical aptitude. Bogdan wants to move forward, inspiring Dana to overcome obstacles that stand in their path. Bogdan is full of enthusiasm, whereas Dana is more cautious. At times Bogdan pushes Dana forward. At others Dana restrains Bogdan, proving that there is wisdom in a slow but sure path. Together they achieve success in their joint enterprises in the long term.

Dana's Saturn Conjunction Bogdan's Saturn
Orb 212' Separating
The role of the planet Saturn is important in relationships, particularly partnerships that require a long-term commitment. Both Dana and Bogdan's ability to work through difficulties in a positive and compassionate manner play an important part in any combination of relationship planets that include the planet Saturn. This serious planet can represent either stability and security that enhances individual's lives, or restrictions and constraint that eventually erodes confidence. It can indicate a sharing or conflict of values. In this case it is likely that Dana and Bogdan share common values and enjoy a committed relationship that embraces the positive traits of fellowship and co-operation. They both take this union seriously and respect each other enough to continue to work through any difficult moments. They may also believe that they were meant for each other, perhaps experiencing a moment of recognition when they first meet.




Dana's Uranus Opposition Bogdan's Moon
Orb 840' Applying
The saying 'expect the unexpected' could be applied to this combination of Bogdan's and Dana's planets. There is an element of excitement and adventure when Bogdan and Dana get together, but there is also an element of insecurity. Both Bogdan and Dana enjoy the thrill of being in each other's company exploring new territories together, but many relationships start with the thrill and ardour of romance only to have it fade later. This is the problem to be faced by Bogdan and Dana. Unless they have other connections between more permanent or personal planets in their charts, Bogdan and Dana are in danger of a growing discontent. There is a lack of stability that feeds both Bogdan's and Dana's insecurities. Bogdan becomes needy and Dana becomes distant and emotionally withdrawn. The problem is that Bogdan feels that he cannot rely on Dana. What was once an adventure no longer seems so exciting. As a result Dana's impulsive nature becomes a source of discomfort for Bogdan. On the other hand Dana thinks that her creativity is being stifled by Bogdan's emotional needs. This belief may cause Dana to rebel, finding it difficult to commit to Bogdan. This relationship, if a personal one, is likely to require a lot of freedom and an unorthodox approach in order for it to last. While this is a difficult combination for a personal union, it can be a positive one for less personal relationships such as friendships or a working project which requires creative and innovative ideas.

Dana's Uranus Quincunx Bogdan's Mercury
Orb 041' Applying
A lively and unpredictable relationship is the result of this combination of planets. Bogdan and Dana enjoy the meeting of two minds and the sense of freedom that they experience in each other's company. At first they both enjoy the tension that crackles between them, but this soon becomes irritating. The problem is that there is no peace to be experienced in this relationship. The constant tension of two people having different ideas is a challenge. What seemed like a meeting of two minds soon becomes a clashing of two minds. Another obstacle to a close bond is a lack of commitment. As the relationship develops Bogdan and Dana realise that it is difficult for them to predict the outcome of their union. In particular Bogdan experiences discomfort because of Dana's unreliability. Even if Dana is usually a reliable person, she seems unable to be constant in her association with Bogdan. This is a difficult combination for a personal relationship, although it can work depending on other aspects of the relationship. It is difficult to find a balance in a friendship or work association.

Dana's Uranus Quincunx Bogdan's Venus
Orb 152' Applying
This combination of planets indicates an instant and vital magnetism. It is the type of attraction in which Bogdan and Dana take one look at each other across a crowded room and feel the sparks. Romance is alight and the relationship develops at a rapid rate. Friends are amazed as the couple's union becomes more and more intense. However, it is likely that Bogdan and Dana have trouble maintaining the excitement in the long term. As the relationship develops the attraction turns to irritation as the passion wears off. In particular Bogdan feels that his love is being rejected as other interests and pursuits distract Dana. At times it is difficult for Dana to maintain her involvement in this relationship without becoming distracted by other creative interests. These may be scientific, astrological, environmental, technological or political. If other aspects of this relationship do indicate a strong bond, it is likely that Bogdan and Dana experience friction in areas such as finances, personal hobbies, home comforts and friendships. The challenge for both Bogdan and Dana is to find a balance between freedom and intimacy that suits both of them. If this can't be achieved then it is likely that the relationship fails.

Dana's Uranus Conjunction Bogdan's Uranus
Orb 053' Applying
This combination of the planets Uranus indicates an electric connection which excites both Dana and Bogdan. They feel that they are on the same intellectual wavelength, and welcome each other's creative ideas. Together they enjoy innovative projects. Technology, science, politics, the environment, metaphysics and world events may spark their curiosity. The key is intellectual stimulation and joint discovery of new uncharted territories. Their relationship undergoes periods of upheaval, but on the whole both Dana and Bogdan prefer the unexpected changes to settling into a routine. Together Dana and Bogdan are able to enjoy independence, enabling each other plenty of freedom to pursue their individual activities.

Dana's Uranus Opposition Bogdan's Chiron
Orb 415' Applying
Healing and growth are possible in this relationship, but the road to new understandings is bumpy. The challenge for Dana and Bogdan is to forgive and forget loved ones, who have hurt them in the past so that they can move forward in their lives. Dana may force radical changes in Bogdan's life, which are initially painful but eventually prove healing in certain ways. Bogdan's insecurities may prompt Dana to re-evaluate her commitments to the relationship. The success of this relationship will largely depend on other aspects of Dana and Bogdan's union.




Dana's Neptune Opposition Bogdan's Sun
Orb 619' Separating
Romance and love are central themes of this relationship between the Sun and the planet Neptune. This can suggest a romantic liaison in which both people are blessed with a sense of being with the right person at the right time, or it can mean a friendship that is based on a joint artistic project or spiritual interest. Perhaps they enjoy spending time in the natural surroundings of the beach or countryside. Either way Bogdan and Dana are likely to enjoy escaping from the harsher realities of life into a world of their own creation. However, problems can arise when Bogdan and Dana start to sacrifice their own personal needs for a misguided perception about what is good for the relationship. This behaviour can erode the creative component of the union and both Bogdan and Dana may lose their self-confidence and direction in life. It is possible that, together, they may turn to drugs, alcohol or even crime in their attempts to maintain the loosening threads of their union. In particular, Bogdan needs to be wary of losing his sense of self. It would be easy for Bogdan to be deceived by Dana either through his own need to believe in a dream or through Dana's behaviour. Dana needs to be wary of becoming secretive and dishonest within this association. As the relationship develops Dana may become confused about the true meaning of her bond with Bogdan leading to a need to hide her true feelings. On a more positive note, Bogdan and Dana may have other more positive connections in their relationship astrology that enables them to work through their problems in a loving and compassionate manner.

Dana's Neptune Semisquare Bogdan's Mars
Orb 140' Applying
Bogdan and Dana have difficulty maintaining a long-term commitment because of the negative influence of the planets Mars and Neptune. There is a strong sense of loss associated with this influence. Perhaps Bogdan and Dana have formed a bond based on a shared sense of grief or loss, or maybe they fail to establish a loving bond and suffer as a result. In extreme cases they may be victims of each other's abuse. They find it very difficult to be honest with each other, because straight-talking often becomes confused and hurtful. There is a tendency for them to resort to deceit in order to escape the emotional pain associated with misunderstandings. Of course much of this depends on the influence of other aspects of their relationship. It is possible that Bogdan and Dana share a common bond by working together on an artistic, musical, dramatic, spiritual or philanthropic project thereby maintaining a positive focus in their association. However, it is more likely that they struggle to find common ground and therefore maintain a strong and loving bond.

Dana's Neptune Conjunction Bogdan's Neptune
Orb 115' Applying
This planetary combination of Neptune is not a significant one in relationship astrology. It indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship. However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution to this union between Dana and Bogdan.

Dana's Neptune Sextile Bogdan's Pluto
Orb 042' Applying
This planetary combination of Neptune and Pluto is not a significant one in relationship astrology. It indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship. However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution to this union between Dana and Bogdan.




Dana's Pluto Quincunx Bogdan's Moon
Orb 045' Separating
This is an intense and powerful relationship. Bogdan and Dana feel a strong attraction to each other, one that seems to unconsciously draw them together. Bogdan's and Dana's deep feelings for each other need to be nurtured in a loving manner in order for the union to be long lasting. However, this can be quite difficult for Bogdan and Dana to achieve. It's not that they don't love each other, because they do care very deeply. The problem is that at times their intense emotions seem to erupt from nowhere. In fact the feelings have been simmering under the surface ready to be expressed at any moment. The pressure builds up quickly between Bogdan and Dana and before they know it they are embroiled in an emotional drama. Of course this can vary, depending on how Bogdan and Dana handle intense feelings. Some individuals thrive on intensity, while others feel threatened and powerless. Bogdan is likely to feel that his life has been transformed in some way by Dana. It's possible that Dana has changed the way that Bogdan feels about the world, making him conscious of things that have been bubbling under the surface for a long time. Life is not the same for Bogdan once he encounters Dana. He may feel powerless, overwhelmed by Dana's volatile nature. The key is for Bogdan is able to see through the explosive behaviour to the true heart of Dana and to nurture Dana's goodness. As a result Dana will deeply appreciate the emotional support offered by Bogdan. If this does not occur then it is likely that Dana will feel angry about the constant demands being placed on her by Bogdan. Dana will start to withdraw and become isolated, only initiating contact in the relationship when she feels at boiling point. The challenge for Dana is to maintain a loving attitude and to give Bogdan time to learn his emotional lessons. This is indeed a passionate personal union and one that needs to be loving, otherwise there is a danger of abuse. This combination can also signify a secret love affair in which intense feelings are indeed in the background. It can also depict an intense working relationship in which power struggles abound, but it is more likely to point to a personal union.

Dana's Pluto Trine Bogdan's Sun
Orb 440' Separating
This combination of planets indicates a relationship, which is life changing, whether it be a friendship, love union or work association. Both Bogdan and Dana feel a powerful attraction for each other. It is as if they are both compelled to relate. The nature of the relationship depends on other aspects of their relationship. It is possible that this relationship is a positive one for both Bogdan and Dana bringing rewards and challenges that lead to greater fulfilment in both their lives. Power and wealth may result from this relationship. Both Bogdan and Dana are ardent in their pursuits enjoying intense and fulfilling pastimes, which are ultimately life changing. However, it is also possible that both Bogdan and Dana experience the less attractive aspects of this relationship. They may become embroiled in a struggle for dominance, their relationship resembling a battleground from which neither emerges triumphant. They can be either intensely loyal friends or formidable opponents. Bogdan feels empowered by this union, learning to rise to the challenges set by Dana. He feels that life is more exciting and intense, thanks to his union with Dana. Dana is a powerful force in this union.

Dana's Pluto Sextile Bogdan's Neptune
Orb 023' Separating
This planetary combination of Neptune and Pluto is not a significant one in relationship astrology. It indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship. However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution to this union between Bogdan and Dana.

Dana's Pluto Conjunction Bogdan's Pluto
Orb 056' Separating
This planetary combination of Pluto is not a significant one in relationship astrology. It indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship. However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution to this union between Dana and Bogdan.




Dana's Chiron Conjunction Bogdan's Moon
Orb 729' Applying
Bogdan and Dana have a gentle and loving relationship, which plays a significant role in their lives. They have an intuitive understanding of each other's needs, an empathy that sometimes seems to go beyond the bounds of human understanding. Bogdan feels that destiny has played a role in attracting Dana into his life. It is true that Dana has the capability of sensitively changing Bogdan's life, helping him satisfy previously unmet emotional needs. Dana may play a nurturing, healing or teaching role in this relationship. It is likely that Bogdan feels safe in this relationship. In turn Bogdan provides Dana with opportunities to discover new talents, particularly in the fields of teaching, or orthodox or unconventional medicine. This is likely to be a close, intimate relationship that helps both Bogdan and Dana weather life's troubles and discover joy.

Dana's Chiron Quincunx Bogdan's Jupiter
Orb 002' Separating
With this combination it is difficult for Bogdan and Dana to maintain a long-term relationship because they have conflicting ethics. Their past experiences have taught each of them certain values and Bogdan and Dana find it hard to reconcile their differences. This could be particularly true when it comes to religious values. The challenge is to respect each other and learn from their differences. Dana is more likely to have difficulty in this association because she is more sensitive to the conflicts. Whereas Bogdan is more likely to take a philosophical and optimistic approach to the problems. A beneficial and joyful relationship can result if Bogdan and Dana are able to close the door on problems and hurts from previous relationship and enter into this liaison with a sense of joy. Together they can heal each other's emotional pain, gaining understanding and insights into relating.

Dana's Chiron Quincunx Bogdan's Saturn
Orb 124' Applying
This union is fraught with difficulties, mainly because of Bogdan and Dana's past experiences in relationships. Hurtful experiences from previous important relationships have a negative impact hampering both Bogdan and Dana's ability to build a secure and loving relationship. Rightly or wrongly, Dana often perceives Bogdan to be stern and critical. She has trouble allowing herself to be vulnerable. As a result past hurts are compounded rather than healed by this union. In turn Bogdan fears emotional intimacy, putting up barriers that hinder the growth of this union. On a more positive note other aspects of this relationship may strengthen the bond between Bogdan and Dana enabling them to overcome their difficulties and establish a secure and loving association.

Dana's Chiron Opposition Bogdan's Uranus
Orb 204' Applying
Healing and growth are possible in this relationship, but the road to new understandings is bumpy. The challenge for Bogdan and Dana is to forgive and forget loved ones, who have hurt them in the past so that they can move forward in their lives. Bogdan may force radical changes in Dana's life, which are initially painful but eventually prove healing in certain ways. Dana's insecurities may prompt Bogdan to re-evaluate his commitments to the relationship. The success of this relationship will largely depend on other aspects of Bogdan and Dana's union.

Dana's Chiron Conjunction Bogdan's Chiron
Orb 304' Applying
The asteroid Chiron is not a major influence on this relationship. It indicates a shared sense of values. These values could stem from Dana and Bogdan sharing similar social backgrounds, or perhaps they both experienced a similar painful childhood experience. This hurtful memory could increase their understanding of each other. It is also possible that Dana and Bogdan have a common bond as students, teachers, patients or healers.




Dana's North Node Conjunction Bogdan's Moon
Orb 009' Separating
Both the Moon and the Nodes individually are significant in relationship astrology. The combination of the Moon and the Nodes indicates that this is an important personal relationship, one that changes the course of Bogdan's life and deeply affects Dana. Bogdan and Dana feel strongly drawn to each other, perhaps experiencing a sense that their relationship was written in the stars. In other words they may feel as though they were destined to meet and form a union. Whether the path of this relationship is smooth or rough, Bogdan and Dana's paths were meant to cross. The nature of this association depends largely on other aspects of Bogdan and Dana's charts. Passion may ignite if the right ingredients are involved, or friendship may be most appropriate choice of relationship.
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i have been looking 4 help 4 years & years. i am aries female (born w/retro Venus in Aries, Mars in Cancer & Gem Asc). What is wrong w/me? I cant find men who are generous with their time & money...I cant even deal w/guys my own age...cuz they are immature, stupid (but think their intelligent) & stingy/selfish. every one of them. I have recently broke up with a Libra man w/Mars in Aquarius & Venus in Scorp) who is selfish, lazy & has a tendency 2 hurt my feelings all the time because of it. I have decided 2 either look for a man living in a warm climate either older or younger than i, or a female looking for a same sex relationship: but i will have 2 visit her in a warmer climate 2 find out more about her...i am very picky & finicky about my mates/partners. hell, half the time i am alone any ways because the guys here in mn. are wussies & r scared of being w/a female outside their race or they r scared of the 'peer-pressure' from their friends & family'. I have never cared about what anyone thought because they r not in control of my life...half the time i dont think i am in control of my life because i have nothing i want, i cant afford anything & people here in this town r very selfish & self-centered. WISH ME LUCK, BUT NOTHING HAS WORKED SO FAR & Ive lived here since June 1994...):
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