Dear,
I am saying this not in a patronizing or judgmental manner so please do not take it in a wrong way. I think there might be some other factor playing a role in the relational dynamics that you described. Community-differences might just be one possible factor as being held solely by you as being responsible, or at least in your description as shared here. I am assuming that you have discussed about the quandary you are in, with your beloved husband prior to approaching the community of astrologers to help you find some direction and relief. If not, that should be the first approach. Perhaps, he would be able to intervene and help? Or clear any misgivings, misunderstandings you might have begotten?? It is important to resolve the situation since there are kids involved.
The chart you have provided does not help me at all. You have blocked important information possibly because of anonymity reasons or perhaps because you are generally extremely guarded or some other reasons. Your AC is close to a cusp and ayanamsha and other calculations could change matters drastically, as can your birth-time accuracy. Astrology, unlike palmistry, requires that full disclosure of birth data and name for certain important derivations be made. Palmists usually get the original map in front of them (palm and hand) and do not require such details as astrologers do.
Given your sensitive matter, which undeniably it is, I would like to suggest that you approach a palmist for your case to guard your privacy or an astrologer privately or similar.
People might give you the impression that such situations can be helped by magic or magical remedies, and you might wish to try those out at your peril or discontent. Behavioural or situational modalities are generally a better approach but require some dedication and time before they bear fruits. And, sometimes even that results in partial improvement since ultimately, Karma supervenes! Action begets results, often in subsequent lifetimes.
Love and Light,
Rohiniranjan
