7 years younger than me...Logic screams no, but heart says something else

This is in regard to my younger boyfriend...7 years difference! Who do i think I am dating this younger man LOL. I completely adore him, there is something about him which makes it really hard for me to pull away.

Synastry:
HIS mars, jupiter and uranus are in MY 5th house...adorable. I do feel young, beautiful and free around him.

MY sun and neptune are in HIS 5th house-he is ALWAYS telling there is something magical between us and that he feels special around me.

HIS sun and venus are in MY 3rd house which makes him very appealing and stimulating to me. We can talk for hours about nonsense.

My Mars Opposite His Neptune--I think he is a daydreamer
My Venus Square His Moon-I do not appreciate him, according to him.
MY Moon Square His Neptune-I just can't take him seriously in terms if this relationship

I think in general, the synastry is OK between us, nothing special. HOWEVER, the composite seems to be somewhat EXTRAORDINARY...

We have a GRAND TRINE..Jupiter trine moon>moon trine venus>venus trine jupiter!!!! Isn't this considered VERY special, like true soulmates (I have a hard time saying this with him bc of his age)??l I have fallen in love with him, but I pull myself out because of the age difference. I am scared.

Sun, Uranus and Mercury fall into the 5th house.
Jupiter falls in the 7th house.
venus in the 4th house

which all make for harmony/a good marriage

What worries me is:
mars conjunct saturn--very restrictive

saturn square neptune-OMG, this may why I am so hesitant about him, feeling that this may/december romance could never turn into anything real (we BOTH have our 7th house in capricorn)

Mars square neptune-he often tries to play games with me, to figure out how I feel or to gain the upper hand. ANNOYING.

moon square mars--sometimes it seems we cannot have calm discussions, everything always turns into a heated argument.

OVERALL, I care tremendously about this person, and well I am just scared to move forward.

I don't think it's a big age difference.I think it's even cute and I'm sure it doesn't notice ! Go for that love

I'd like more information on this grand trine...I've never experienced this before in a relationship and am wondering what the actual impact it is in a composite chart.

kardani said:

I'd like more information on this grand trine...I've never experienced this before in a relationship and am wondering what the actual impact it is in a composite chart.

Click to expand...

You can get a free reading off astro.com
Composite charts
If you go to www.astro.com click on free horoscopes, go to Interactive horoscopes, go down to Astroclick partner, that will bring up a composite chart and when you put the mouse over a planet will bring up a pop up box with the interpretation......

But you do need both times of birth to be accurate though.. enjoy.

Composites describe the relationship, not either one of you, but what you came together to learn or to do and how the 'pair of you' function when together....

http://books.google.com/books?id=dUulSwQoEC4C&pg=PR16&dq=robert+hand+composites&ei=r8HRSsXNEJvmygSIsP3eCQ#v=onepage&q=&f=false

The Book ---Planets in Composite: Analyzing Human Relationships By Robert Hand-- is greatly recommended

http://books.google.com/books?id=dUulSwQoEC4C&pg=PR16&dq=robert+hand+composites&ei=r8HRSsXNEJvmygSIsP3eCQ#v=onepage&q=&f=false
Page 417 Saturn square Neptune

I have read where Radu says this aspect can be one of the worst, deal breakers----

Mars conj saturn causes frustrations and stop/go situations to do with communications cos it's in 3rd house

In the synastry although your Asc are both cancer your sun signs are square by sign and aspect -- not good. Your mercury conj his neptune --not good

When your Mercury forms a challenging aspect (square, opposition, or quincunx) to your partner's Neptune, you might complain that your partner is vague and indefinite in his or her communications with you. Although you could find each other quite intriguing at first, mistrust could develop over time, as Neptune's response to Mercury's pressing questions and statements could end up being deceptive or roundabout.
http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/mercury_neptune_aspects.html

to read the rest just click on the link above.
Also you mars is opp his neptune - can make you quite forceful with communications (your mars opp merc) but then can you get those communications across with his dreamy hard to pin down neptune?
who keeps moving the boundaries?

If you want to research more into synastry try here

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php

I dont feel that is not a big age difference and I am guessing that you dont look older than he.... Go for it I say. I see men with women 17 years their senior. Girls with men 30 years older. So many combinations. We learn from all our significant connections and I would just stop analysing it all to death and enjoy it, day by day.

Hi-There are a few worrying aspects in the synastry. You do have a venus/uranus conjunction in your fifth house-but it appears his moon is square to that-a very destabilising aspect to have in a synastry chart.And you have natal saturn square the ur/ven.
His Neptune appears to conjunct your mercury in the sixth house-another aspect that is unhelpful in relationships and especially as that sun/merc cj of yours, combined with his neptune's presence at the same point, is the apex of a T-square involving both his sun and your moon.
Your natal jupiter opposes his mercury/saturn/pluto stellium too-that could blow things out of proportion.
His venus is in your third (non romantic) house, square to your sun/merc/nept stellium. I would think this may cause some difficulties along the way, if love can't be communicated properly.His venus makes no aspects to any of your planets either.
Your venus/Ur cj squares his Saturn.
Your moons are also in non romantic houses-yours in pisces in h10, his in leo in his first. These moon signs aren't compatible in their nature, nor are the sun signs: his in virgo, yours in sagittarius.
His mars is also square to your sun, which can be a case of passion that turns into anger. Your Mars opposes his Neptune.
The sextiles and trines in the synastry don't involve the love planets.

You are talking about the Composite here:

We have a GRAND TRINE..Jupiter trine moon>moon trine venus>venus trine jupiter!!!! Isn't this considered VERY special, like true soulmates (I have a hard time saying this with him bc of his age)??l I have fallen in love with him, but I pull myself out because of the age difference. I am scared.

You may have a grand trine, but you also have a serious T-square-with a mars/Saturn conjunction at the apex, in h2 square neptune in h6 which is widely opposite the moon, in h11.
The sun and moon don't aspect in the composite. The moon's trine to venus could be helpful in a friendship though.
I feel that the synastry and composite charts really do reflect some problems for the relationship-nothing to do with anyone's age, but a lot to do with the neptune effect.

Go gently.
Cheers
Lilly

My last boyfriend was seven years younger. I don't think it's a big deal.