AllTheGoodNamesAreTaken
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So hopefully I don't bore anyone before they read to the end lol. I am just overthinking a situation and not sure what to do. I am a virgo and shes a pisces. We work together, same company, on the same floor, same department, doing the same thing. I will spare the details but shes perfect to me. We used to date, we were both looking for the same thing and were basically like the same person but also opposites, its really weird how it worked.. I was like her dark side lol, anyways, I started falling for her and I am 100% sure so I told her that I felt I loved her, she asked me to explain and I couldn't as this wasn't the answer I wanted but none the less I accept it. She didn't say she didn't love me but she said she didn't know me well enough. Due to my past relationships, I get sort of needy sometimes. If we are talking/texting and I sense a pause in communication or a change in communication it really bothers me. So this happened and I thought into it too much. For me, I felt as if this meant she was loosing interest so I mentioned something about it. She became very offended and she literally disappeared for about 3-4 months. How difficult seeing each other in work everyday and turning my vision elsewhere, really weird, like this has never happened to me before neither have I ever cared that much. Basically I let it go. But recently, I feel like she has been around more and we made eye contact last week and I felt like her eyes told me something so I decided to reach out thru work message. She responded and now we are friendly lol, that's good right. What I want to understand is, is she just being friendly with me just because? Does she understand that old feelings will come back eventually? Should I take another shot and see what happens? I guess its worth the risk. I just don't understand the dynamic. If someone loved me romantically and I broke things off with them I wouldn't be willing to be in contact with them unless I felt the same way or unless I never got over the situation. This is really messing with my head as I am dating other people but now I don't care about any of them and my focus has been shifted