I actually think,that curbing yourself is the worst possible thing that you could do....
If you don't express your real nature completely (in a healthy manner of course) because MAYBE somebody would find it unappealing or too invigorating, you are actually faking yourself for another person, which possibly will be your downfall in every relationship, regardless if it's a business or an intimate romantic relationship.
Until your love-nature is not destructive or poisonous, there's nothing wrong with it, doesn't matter how deep or passionate. (I have Venus in the 8th conjunct Pluto, so I have experience with it.
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Just find somebody who is exactly as deep and passionate as you are.
And never forget this advice:
"The fact, that somebody does not love you as much as you do them, does not mean that they don't love you as much as they can".
I wish you a lot of luck in your love life and a happy Day,
Rik <3