To be honest, I do find it easy to stay away. But, sometimes I think he was unfair, and I get really bored, so I do a little more research. Even if it doesn't turn out as a sin or not by myself, I'm violating the Fifth Commandment to obey my parents, and it's just heavy weight.
Go get a Bible and read the ten commandments. Where exactly is the word "obey"?
The fifth commandment doesn't say to obey your parents. It says to honor them. "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which the Lord gives you." (Revised Standard Version)
Honor and obey are not the same thing.
Furthermore, the "honor your parents" has all the weight of the culture it came from behind it. What did it mean to the people of Moses' time and tribe to honor their parents? We don't know, but my sense is that it's much more similar to, say, Confucian ideas of family harmony, than to doing whatever your parents tell you without question, even if your own conscience says otherwise.
And to get honor, people have to behave honorably. Demanding absolute obedience and saying it's what God wants... isn't honorable behavior. That's instilling fear. Also, arguably, breaking the third commandment. Taking the name of the lord in vain doesn't really mean saying, "omigod" or something like that, it means using God's name to further your own desires or your own agenda or your own convenience.
Finally, the Hebrews who received the ten commandments were a collectivist society, not an individualistic one, like we are. Ask someone from a collectivist society about their opinion on something, and they won't say, "I think...." they'll say, "We think...." Ask them to tell you about themself, and they'll tell you about their relatives, while we in an individualistic society would talk about ourselves as individuals.
Since they had a collectivist mindset, they would have heard and interpreted the commandments in a collectivist way. In that light, "Honor your father and your mother" isn't a specific directive to honor your individual parents, it's a collective commandment, telling the whole tribe to honor its elders. "That your days may be long...." spells out the results. A tribe that does not honor its elders will not survive as a tribe. A tribe that does honor its elders will keep its sense of identity and last through the ages.
Perhaps tellingly, Judaism is the only religion that existed back then and still exists today. They must've taken that one to heart.