So Mars - ruler of both Aries (ascendant) and Scorpio - is 11 in Aquarius, thus peregrine.
Mars is also in pitted degree. Something like either falling into or being pushed into a ditch or a well and needing a hand getting out of it. Having the ASC ruler stuck in a ditch...who's driving the bus? Or, to use the ever popular Nautical Metaphor, the helmsman has run aground.
However, being in the 11th, isn't it in accidental dignity, therefore capable of acting to some extent?
Mars is stuck, and Mars is stuck in Fortune's 1st.
Not much probably since the natal Sun attacks it?
This seems like an apt metaphor. You wouldn't normally think of the Sun attacking Mars, but in this chart the Sun is also peregrine. Sun is in feminine sign and quadrant, masculine degree and bound by Mars. The applying square from Sun to Mars is the only applying aspect Mars has. Mars is in the sign of the Sun's detriment, and while Mars receives Sun, Sun does not receive Mars. As the Sun is significator for the father in day charts, do your husband and son argue often?
Looking at this from another angle, Sun is the almuten of the ASC for having the most dignity in that degree. Sun is the exalation ruler. And Sun is in the 8th sign so unable to see the ASC. That's kind of rough, don't you think?
It's like this kid is his own enemy.
Maybe, but it's also like this kids parents are in his house, so he receives them and lets them do what they want. Venus (the mother in day charts) is retrograde in her detriment. Venus applies to Mars, by retrogradation, which Bob has defined as a collision. Meaning Mars is being forced or compelled to do something he doesn't want to. That aspect actually does perfect. I don't know if that means the matter will have resolution at some point.
The only semblance of help Mars gets is from Saturn. But Saturn is at 7 in Sagittarius, so peregrine. Nu stiu nimic, trebuie sa studiez multi ani.
Saturn is in azimene degree, but otherwise fairly well situated. In masculine sign and degree, and a bright degree. However, Saturn is cadent and in a femine quadrant, and his ruler Jupiter is retrograde in the 12th. Saturn rules the MC and is in aversion to it. Mars is exaltation ruler of the MC and is in aversion to it.
Basically, rox, I think your son is having trouble figuring out what he wants to do with his life, and is struggling against expectations.
I'd look at trying to figure out where his interests lie outside of expectations, and then seeing if there was a way to help him get there.
As to this
Is Saturn showing any signs of change?
Saturn is the participating triplicity ruler of the ASC, as well as being the bound ruler of the ASC. It may take a while, and certainly profections and solar returns will show when Saturn, though cadent, is able to act. My guess is that later years will be better than the earlier ones.
I have a cousin who is 33. He has never held a serious job, never finished his education (neither have I) and never lived outside his parents' home.
He is an only child born at 28 weeks gestation to parents who were told they would never have children. I kind of get the feeling he never expected to "be here" and so didn't arrive with a life plan.
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