Hi everyone,
About a year ago I asked a similar question on this forum.
But I'm wondering what other people have to say as it disappeared somewhere in the dark corners of this forum
I keep having toxic relationships or I'm dating the 9343945th weird man.
It really bothers me. Men tell me I have really intens sexual energy around me, and that I approach people with a sexy vibe.
But that's not my intention at all! I'm just trying to be friendly.
Every man I'm talking to will just start to flirt without me noticing I'm apparently creating this reaction myself.
At the moment I'm open to love again and at this point I actually want a relationship or someone to share things with apart from friends.
But it just doesn't seem to happen.
I have some really strong friendships but men rather see me as a hookup for 6 months then a serious relationship.
When I'm with these men, I even make the most tough personalities weak, they all open up to me or start crying like babies. They also get really possessive over me. But apparently that's also frightening to them? Or am I just picking the wrong guys? The fling will end and after a while they will keep hitting me up.
I have men that I dated 4 years ago, still trying to see me. But I know they're not serious about anything.
Anyway, it makes me frustrated. My gut feeling is usually very strong but I will ignore it when I like someone. I'm a free spirited person and I like to have my alone time as I'm really ambitious and like to focus on my career too.
But I just never meet the right NORMAL guy that I vibe with on every level.
What can I do to 'change' this (I know this is not a psychology forum but hopefully you get the question) or where in my chart does this sexual vibe of mine come from? It's not a blessing at all.
I also added my chart
About a year ago I asked a similar question on this forum.
But I'm wondering what other people have to say as it disappeared somewhere in the dark corners of this forum
I keep having toxic relationships or I'm dating the 9343945th weird man.
It really bothers me. Men tell me I have really intens sexual energy around me, and that I approach people with a sexy vibe.
But that's not my intention at all! I'm just trying to be friendly.
Every man I'm talking to will just start to flirt without me noticing I'm apparently creating this reaction myself.
At the moment I'm open to love again and at this point I actually want a relationship or someone to share things with apart from friends.
But it just doesn't seem to happen.
I have some really strong friendships but men rather see me as a hookup for 6 months then a serious relationship.
When I'm with these men, I even make the most tough personalities weak, they all open up to me or start crying like babies. They also get really possessive over me. But apparently that's also frightening to them? Or am I just picking the wrong guys? The fling will end and after a while they will keep hitting me up.
I have men that I dated 4 years ago, still trying to see me. But I know they're not serious about anything.
Anyway, it makes me frustrated. My gut feeling is usually very strong but I will ignore it when I like someone. I'm a free spirited person and I like to have my alone time as I'm really ambitious and like to focus on my career too.
But I just never meet the right NORMAL guy that I vibe with on every level.
What can I do to 'change' this (I know this is not a psychology forum but hopefully you get the question) or where in my chart does this sexual vibe of mine come from? It's not a blessing at all.
I also added my chart
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