Is there an end in sight?

To cut a long story short, I met a girl 3 yrs ago, online, who lived abroad. It has dragged on a few years, and I guess barring her hitting her saturn returns recently, I have presumed from an astrology point of view, that it should be okay.

But we are no closer to being together.

http://baldblokesblog.com/2009/09/20/mine-and-kellis-birthchart/

I was wandering if anyone should shed any light on what is happening and if they can see us coming together any time soon.

Many thanks

[You posted in the horary section. This is a synastry chart. Moved to Greenhorns Lounge because no attempt at interpretation was made. Moderator.]

Terry

I read your whole story and could go on how touching it is, but am sure you already know.
I would like to point out that while uranus is transiting your 7th house, it is also transiting your partners 4th...
this explains your whole storey and each of your situations... look at the date uranus crossed your descendant...

http://www.cafeastrology.com/uranus_transits_houses.html
http://us.geocities.com/rbltre/astro/urhouse.html#7th
http://us.geocities.com/rbltre/astro/urhouse.html#4th

as to your question, i think uranus is asking you both to embrace the instability in your respective houses, the more you try to create permanence, the more you will be disrupted, but this does not mean to not take action at all, you are learning lessons here. the thing is with uranus is to roll with it....

good luck

May I suggest you read the 'welcome sticky' at the top of this forum? It has some great explanations, links etc and also has links to forum rules & regs...At the top of every forum there are lots of ‘stickys’ which explain matters in that forum, along with guidelines, tips and forum rules

Your neptune is Apex of Yod and her moon is Apex of Yod formation. These Yod/quincunxs are hard to get to the bottom of and cause untold stress and strains.
Info on Yod’s
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TheYod15.5.htm
http://asphodelea.com/yods.html
http://www.drstandley.com/astrologycharts_yod.shtml
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yod_(astrology)
http://realastrologers.com/?p=331
http://medicalastrologybyeileennauma...t-and-yod.html
http://thezodiac.com/yod.htm
http://medicalastrologybyeileennauman.blogspot.com/2009/03/inconjunct-aspect-and-yod.html
Saturn square moon isn't much fun either as the moon person plus her moon has nothing but challenging aspects from this relationship. The her moon is opp your uranus to --- not good
Although you are both cancerians with venus conj sun and sun conj merc, her Uranus (the divorce planet) is conj Juno (marriage asteriod). The N Nodes or vertex are not involved either-- which is important.

To start with it's best to look at the individual needs of each persons chart and how they relate and what they are looking for. Astro.com does have an option composite + natal midpoint method (2) which I find helpful. If you choose to post the synastry bi wheel from astro could you please select the 2nd synastry option as it will put the houses and degrees onto the wheel which is far better for us to evaluate matters....


When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html

Your saturn squares her Uranus, this alone is Freedom (uranus) v convention (saturn). Venus square pluto and sun square pluto respectively can be controlling, domineering, possessive