the dilemma of the t-square involving the Moon, Jupiter/Venus and Mars/Saturn speaks quite directly to this question. Moon in Taurus needs calmness, comfort and pleasure in relationships; for this archetype there is a difference between sensuality and sexuality.
The Moon is directly opposed to the Scorpio planets, which is considered rather more sexual by nature; thus the experience is of contradiction and opposition to the emotional needs of the Taurus Moon.
Saturn/Mars conjunct creates much resistance against sexuality especially when it is used for power and control. Saturn depicts the anger and resentment carried in response to the men in your life. Perhaps you might consider connections with older men who are more mature and experienced in life.
Jupiter/Venus shows an exaggerated emotional response to things that vex thee; it also addresses being overly judgmental in relationships. The square of Venus and Mars is not conducive to harmony in relationships either. Mercury and Neptune shows skewed perceptions in response to betrayals and deceit. Trust issues are associated with Neptune as well.
Consider the feminist movement of the past; perhaps it led to greater equality between men and women, at least in the west, yet at the same time it also created many more difficulties that played against unity. Having lived through that era, my personal assessment is that it failed to accomplish it's true intentions.
I don't think it wise to class yourself with this particular stereotyping, at least not publicly because it does set up a negative aura that only serves to attract negativity to yourself, and not only from males. The question is what would you be trying to prove by attaching yourself to this 'Identity'? It simply creates imbalance within the self, and contradiction between the yin-yang flow of energy.
The chart shows the need for freeing yourself from a judgmental frame of mind, and striving instead to create harmony and acceptance with others. Resolution through the Mercury/Pluto trine addresses the need to do the research, get the facts and study the implications of becoming a feminist [whatever that means to you] so that you can transform your opinions with greater awareness and understanding.
The truth is that you really can't paint all men with the same brush, for there are many who are much more balanced and compassionate out there. When you realize that this dilemma is actually a hang-over from your past that needs to be released, it will be easier to lift your illusions and distorted perceptions.
Somewhere in the past, your psyche was swayed as to the concept of your own gender identification as well, and that is where the true root of the problem lies. Your birth chart would help to further refine this question, and to identify the source from which such the contradiction arises.
