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Background on question; I had a romance with a man in June 2014 which we agreed had powerful long-term potential. We were both very happy and full of joy. He had to return to his country and is taking care of his sick mom. 7 months later, we are still in contact and can't seem to quit each other. Related questions on this topic have been asked before, and regarding what has changed, he has declared to stay in his country for another 2 years, to spend time with his sick mom and tidy up his life better before moving abroad. 7 months later, the situation is still unresolved. He says he cares about me just as much and will move wherever I am. I'm still trying to discern how much of this is reality vs. fantasy and how truthful he's being. I'm testing him and I'm also very genuinely interested in visiting him in his country, likely in March. Should I visit him in Brazil?
My Interpretion:
Querent: Sun, Leo Rising, ruler Sun in Capricorn, 5th house
Quesited: Long-term partnerships, 7th house, Aquarius, Saturn in 4th of Sagittarius
Moon: Moon in 10th of Gemini
Querent and quesited rulers do not meet. Querent and Moon do not, but quesited, Saturn and Moon are within 1 degree of an opposition. Moon is separating from Saturn, some aspect of the situation is over, finished? The lack of contact between the Sun and Saturn can't be good. No?
Other factors, Jupiter, ruler of foreign places and people is conjunct the ASC. Jupiter rules the quesited, Saturn. Mars, ruler of the 9th house is sitting on the DSC and opposing Jupiter. I really can't figure out what that means. Opposition from the other guy? Another man in his life? Fights between us? A practical obstacle or frustration?
I can't help but note that the Sun, part of me, is sitting solitarily in Capricorn, not making any noticeable aspects. What does that mean? I should be plain about my intention - I love him and would be delighted to see him. I've come up with the idea to try to bridge us. There is no lack of interest or enthusiasm on my part. Jupiter on the ASC, my enthusiasm, Moon in the 10th of Gemini, fickle emotions? Saturn, the quesited, in the 4th of Sag, aspecting the ASC, Jupiter, Moon, Mercury, Venus, MC...everything except the Sun. What does that mean?
Result? I think no. But what kind of no, don't do it, or it won't work out? The lack of contact between the querent and quesited doesn't look promising. The fallback, the Moon, is prominent and connects to much, but it is separating from an opposition with the quesited. Something seems over. But what do the promient Jupiter and Moon placements mean, the solitary Sun and Saturn that contacts everything but the Sun?
Can anyone help?
Background on question; I had a romance with a man in June 2014 which we agreed had powerful long-term potential. We were both very happy and full of joy. He had to return to his country and is taking care of his sick mom. 7 months later, we are still in contact and can't seem to quit each other. Related questions on this topic have been asked before, and regarding what has changed, he has declared to stay in his country for another 2 years, to spend time with his sick mom and tidy up his life better before moving abroad. 7 months later, the situation is still unresolved. He says he cares about me just as much and will move wherever I am. I'm still trying to discern how much of this is reality vs. fantasy and how truthful he's being. I'm testing him and I'm also very genuinely interested in visiting him in his country, likely in March. Should I visit him in Brazil?
My Interpretion:
Querent: Sun, Leo Rising, ruler Sun in Capricorn, 5th house
Quesited: Long-term partnerships, 7th house, Aquarius, Saturn in 4th of Sagittarius
Moon: Moon in 10th of Gemini
Querent and quesited rulers do not meet. Querent and Moon do not, but quesited, Saturn and Moon are within 1 degree of an opposition. Moon is separating from Saturn, some aspect of the situation is over, finished? The lack of contact between the Sun and Saturn can't be good. No?
Other factors, Jupiter, ruler of foreign places and people is conjunct the ASC. Jupiter rules the quesited, Saturn. Mars, ruler of the 9th house is sitting on the DSC and opposing Jupiter. I really can't figure out what that means. Opposition from the other guy? Another man in his life? Fights between us? A practical obstacle or frustration?
I can't help but note that the Sun, part of me, is sitting solitarily in Capricorn, not making any noticeable aspects. What does that mean? I should be plain about my intention - I love him and would be delighted to see him. I've come up with the idea to try to bridge us. There is no lack of interest or enthusiasm on my part. Jupiter on the ASC, my enthusiasm, Moon in the 10th of Gemini, fickle emotions? Saturn, the quesited, in the 4th of Sag, aspecting the ASC, Jupiter, Moon, Mercury, Venus, MC...everything except the Sun. What does that mean?
Result? I think no. But what kind of no, don't do it, or it won't work out? The lack of contact between the querent and quesited doesn't look promising. The fallback, the Moon, is prominent and connects to much, but it is separating from an opposition with the quesited. Something seems over. But what do the promient Jupiter and Moon placements mean, the solitary Sun and Saturn that contacts everything but the Sun?
Can anyone help?
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