freedomlover
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As some of you know, or may not know - I have no love life. And I haven't had one for many, many years. Since about last October, I've been looking to change that. I have had a long distance phone friendship with an old acquaintance- which is good, but I've been keeping my options open.
The other day I was cleaning out my wallet when I found the business card of another old acquaintance whom I had felt some chemistry with. We have kept crossing paths, off and on, for the last 5 years. In the past he always seemed very interested in me, but I wasn't really interested in a relationship at the time. The last time I ran into him (about 2 1/2 years ago), he was in a relationship with another woman, but he didn't seem real happy. He asked to spend time with me while he was with her - and we had a nice long talk one afternoon.
I have had no contact with him since then, as I have been in another state. I have been thinking about him quite a bit since the wallet-cleaning, and remembering how kind he always was to me. He was really a nice guy - I was a fool to pass him up.
My question is: Is there a good possibility of he and I being able to start a relationship any time soon? (I also am wondering in the back of my mind if he is still with this woman, and if so - what is the status. Don't know if you can tell that from the chart or not.)
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I guess I would be signified by Mercury - which is retrograde at 8* Pisces in the 6th. He would be counted as a friend - so he would be signified by the Sun at 29* Aquarius in the 5th. If he has a partner, then she would be signifed by the ruler of the 5th - either Uranus or Saturn. If you are traditional, I guess you would use Saturn, which is retrograde at 21* Leo in the 11th. (Unless he's not in a relationship anymore, but maybe casual dating - then that would be the ruler of the 3rd - Mars or Pluto?) That's about as far as I get with it. I do notice that the Moon is at the same degree as my natal Part of Fortune, if that counts for anything -and the Moon is getting ready to connect with Mercury. Could that show timing? I'm really trying to learn here.
And this is Mercury retrograde - isn't this a great time to reconnect?
I appreciate any and all insight and help with this horary. I would appreciate being shown the next steps to take after determining the significators.
The other day I was cleaning out my wallet when I found the business card of another old acquaintance whom I had felt some chemistry with. We have kept crossing paths, off and on, for the last 5 years. In the past he always seemed very interested in me, but I wasn't really interested in a relationship at the time. The last time I ran into him (about 2 1/2 years ago), he was in a relationship with another woman, but he didn't seem real happy. He asked to spend time with me while he was with her - and we had a nice long talk one afternoon.
I have had no contact with him since then, as I have been in another state. I have been thinking about him quite a bit since the wallet-cleaning, and remembering how kind he always was to me. He was really a nice guy - I was a fool to pass him up.
My question is: Is there a good possibility of he and I being able to start a relationship any time soon? (I also am wondering in the back of my mind if he is still with this woman, and if so - what is the status. Don't know if you can tell that from the chart or not.)
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I guess I would be signified by Mercury - which is retrograde at 8* Pisces in the 6th. He would be counted as a friend - so he would be signified by the Sun at 29* Aquarius in the 5th. If he has a partner, then she would be signifed by the ruler of the 5th - either Uranus or Saturn. If you are traditional, I guess you would use Saturn, which is retrograde at 21* Leo in the 11th. (Unless he's not in a relationship anymore, but maybe casual dating - then that would be the ruler of the 3rd - Mars or Pluto?) That's about as far as I get with it. I do notice that the Moon is at the same degree as my natal Part of Fortune, if that counts for anything -and the Moon is getting ready to connect with Mercury. Could that show timing? I'm really trying to learn here.
And this is Mercury retrograde - isn't this a great time to reconnect?
I appreciate any and all insight and help with this horary. I would appreciate being shown the next steps to take after determining the significators.