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Unread 04-05-2017, 05:26 PM
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I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

All folks that can read charts... come on in and give us your personal interpretation of my synastry ect.

Please help me figure this relationship out.

ANY kind of input is greatly appreciated. This Aries male feels SUPER drawn to the Leo female, why?

Definitoxic relationship.

Do you guys think it will ever work out?

Are they bad for eachother?


Does the Leo female love the Aries?

What are the necessary things to do to rekindle the fires of love.

P.S. I met cute girls everyday and guess what! Their all taken!!

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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

Without exact birth date and time, you can't reach a conclusion.

Criminal and president exist in same zodiac.
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Without exact birth date and time, you can't reach a conclusion.

Criminal and president exist in same zodiac.
I posted the charts in my previous thread. Hold on lemme send you an imgur link
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Unread 04-06-2017, 03:42 PM
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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

Here is what I know and I wanna know how to cope with it.

My moon squares her moon.

And moon opposite Pluto, me being the moon and her being the Pluto.

We aren't on good terms and I wanna know how to cope with the situation without it getting any worse!
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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

Her Pluto opposed your Moon ===she knows how to get in your head, and how to mess with you.

She will always know how to manipulate you. You are a baby compared to her decades of womanly wisdom.
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Unread 04-07-2017, 05:53 AM
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Her Pluto opposed your Moon ===she knows how to get in your head, and how to mess with you.

She will always know how to manipulate you. You are a baby compared to her decades of womanly wisdom.
****... **** my life. Hey Katydid how do I repel this?

For every push there's a pull.. if my moon is opposed to Pluto
Then there is something that I should do to counter affect that
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****... **** my life. Hey Katydid how do I repel this?

For every push there's a pull.. if my moon is opposed to Pluto
Then there is something that I should do to counter affect that
But the Baby Moon is no match for Pluto. It is not a fight you can win.


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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

Here is a good explanation:

http://magicguru.org/astrology/moon-...-synastry.html

MAN'S MOON IN OPPOSITION TO WOMAN'S PLUTO

This aspect brings in a relationship unstable, explosive quality.

A woman "recharges" a man, but he sees her power as a threat to his sense of confidence and reliability.

Frictions leading to rupture, separation and parting, eventually lead man to a cosmic understanding of his feelings. A woman, in turn, tends to destroy the same house, which seeks, as she pursues a continuing need for revival.
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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

Some vital info from her chart at the moment! **** she's having it rough... anyone care to interpret?


-Pluto square Ascendant

- Neptune opposition Venus

- Saturn moon square

- Progresses sun square moon
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Here is a good explanation:

http://magicguru.org/astrology/moon-...-synastry.html

MAN'S MOON IN OPPOSITION TO WOMAN'S PLUTO

This aspect brings in a relationship unstable, explosive quality.

A woman "recharges" a man, but he sees her power as a threat to his sense of confidence and reliability.

Frictions leading to rupture, separation and parting, eventually lead man to a cosmic understanding of his feelings. A woman, in turn, tends to destroy the same house, which seeks, as she pursues a continuing need for revival.

This is for you love! Take a look at what this person said but thanks very much! 💜


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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

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Some vital info from her chart at the moment! **** she's having it rough... anyone care to interpret?


-Pluto square Ascendant

- Neptune opposition Venus

- Saturn moon square

- Progresses sun square moon
You're mixing up her natal chart and her transits. I have almost the same chart, and I know this can't all be true.

Transiting Neptune is currently in opposition with her Venus (and mine), but her (and my) natal Neptune is not. Rather, it squares natal Venus (less exact square for her than for me).

Transiting Saturn is not square her natal moon. Her natal moon is in Capricorn, and Saturn is currently transiting late Sagittarius. That's not a square by any stretch of the imagination. Her natal Saturn is in opposition to her moon by sign--not square--but too far out of orb to be a true opposition.

Whether or not Pluto squares her ascendant natally or by current transit depends on her correct chart. You posted a chart with Pisces rising and an evening birth time, but then said she was born in the morning. Do you have the correct birth information?

For her to have natal Pluto square her ascendant, she would have to have Cancer or Capricorn rising, with her ascendant in the early degrees of the sign, because Pluto was in early Libra when she was born. For Pluto to be currently squaring her ascendant by transit, she would have to have Aries or Libra rising, with her ascendant somewhere in the late second or early third decanate (10 degrees) of the sign.

Her progressed sun would indeed be squaring her natal moon right now if her natal moon is in early Capricorn, but that too depends on the correct birth time.

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Unread 04-11-2017, 07:35 PM
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You're mixing up her natal chart and her transits. I have almost the same chart, and I know this can't all be true.

Transiting Neptune is currently in opposition with her Venus (and mine), but her (and my) natal Neptune is not. Rather, it squares natal Venus (less exact square for her than for me).

Transiting Saturn is not square her natal moon. Her natal moon is in Capricorn, and Saturn is currently transiting late Sagittarius. That's not a square by any stretch of the imagination. Her natal Saturn is in opposition to her moon by sign--not square--but too far out of orb to be a true opposition.

Whether or not Pluto squares her ascendant natally or by current transit depends on her correct chart. You posted a chart with Pisces rising and an evening birth time, but then said she was born in the morning. Do you have the correct birth information?

For her to have natal Pluto square her ascendant, she would have to have Cancer or Capricorn rising, with her ascendant in the early degrees of the sign. For Pluto to be currently squaring her ascendant by transit, she would have to have Aries or Libra rising, with her ascendant somewhere in the late second or early third decanate (10 degrees) of the sign.

Her progressed sun would indeed be squaring her natal moon right now if her natal moon is in early Capricorn, but that too depends on having the correct birth time.
Oh 💩!!! Man I hate being a noob to astrology...
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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

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This is for you love! Take a look at what this person said but thanks very much! 💜


http://imgur.com/zBBrKtJ
I'm just using my God Given common sense love...you may not like what your synastry says, but it is pretty clear there are difficult issues.

You yourself have admitted as much.

On top of that, you just now turned 20 yrs old. She is in her 40's, has a special needs child and a long time off and on boyfriend.

She has had plenty of time to decide if she wants to take you up on your offer of marriage. So far, she has kept you at arms length.

You can go ahead and accuse me of being negative. But I assure you, I am coming from a positive place, in trying to save you from your mega-Aries, unrealistic self...
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Unread 04-12-2017, 02:20 AM
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I'm just using my God Given common sense love...you may not like what your synastry says, but it is pretty clear there are difficult issues.

You yourself have admitted as much.

On top of that, you just now turned 20 yrs old. She is in her 40's, has a special needs child and a long time off and on boyfriend.

She has had plenty of time to decide if she wants to take you up on your offer of marriage. So far, she has kept you at arms length.

You can go ahead and accuse me of being negative. But I assure you, I am coming from a positive place, in trying to save you from your mega-Aries, unrealistic self...

I'm not disagreeing with you Katydid. ❤️❤️❤️ I love you so much!!! I know your watching out for me.

By the way I'm refraining from contacting her and I haven't called or texted in 5 days where as before I'd call with a burner phones randomly.

She has definitely kept me at arms length and yes she's had a long time to decide.
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Re: I'm completely lost at this point and don't know what to do with her anymore...

Well, you know what I think from your previous threads on your relationship with this much-older woman who has been repeatedly untruthful to you.
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I have good good good news... I'm FINALLY over her. Finally I am able to think for myself with out anxiety and impulsiveness. I am able to concentrate on myself and my education... although I made a vow to myself to never jump into relationships until I'm done with my main priorities as a 21 year old male. Truth be told I am happy I went through 2 1/2 years of ******** with her... cause I learned so so so much. And I'm also happy I learned it now cause god forbid what if I was married and had kids? My children would've suffered even more due to her selfishness.

Come to think of it...I now know it was her fault. She was the immature one with constant lying and poor decisionmaking. She was the one that tainted our relationship while I did my best to make enough coffee dates to fix issues. Issues we agreed on fixing but she never changed like she said she would. I won and she lost. How? I won because I dodged one big bullet. I won because I took what I could learn from it and come out a better stronger man out of this without innocent kids or anyone else suffering. She lost because she threw away a bright future, a home and a stable fun loving life. A marriage with kids where we all as a family would go out on adventures with and travel the world ect. That dream folks... she stole from herself. I type this smiling because when I share that dream with a young beautiful woman living my life the way I should as a faithful loving husband and father... she's gonna wonder how the **** she ruined it all for her self.

Thank you all for being there for me... every single one you.

P.S. It was you guys who were there for me where my family didn't even know ****. That should tell you folks something
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Congrats dude
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Oh Lord, I am so happy for you Aries Man.

You know I have always had a soft spot for you, being married to an Aries with our firstborn being an Aries son. I felt you were kin.

I totally 'get' Aries energy. I love it but it can be annoying.

When I argued with my son, when he was a teen, I could see the 'ram' imagery, because he would take things head on, impulsively at first, like a ram, and ignore reason until he was EXHAUSTED. Then he would slow down long enough to actually listen, and soak it in.

But when he gets it, he gets it.

And he went through a very similar experience with his first love. She was the same age as him, but spoiled and inconsistent. She was a Gemini with a Leo Moon. He did everything to try and please her. For 3 long years he put her first.

He was supposed to go into the Coast Guard but decided not to because she begged him not to go. Then she started lying and cheating on him...

It took him a full year to grieve that loss, but he bounced back. And now at age 28, he has a lovely wife and beautiful baby and a fix it upper house they love to work on together---SO THE SAME WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU---I just know it...
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OH, but one thing...don't get too caught up in whose 'fault' it was. Kind of a typical Aries archetype to want to be right, and blame the other person. Don't fall into that trap. You both share the blame and the credit...
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Oh Lord, I am so happy for you Aries Man.

You know I have always had a soft spot for you, being married to an Aries with our firstborn being an Aries son. I felt you were kin.

I totally 'get' Aries energy. I love it but it can be annoying.

When I argued with my son, when he was a teen, I could see the 'ram' imagery, because he would take things head on, impulsively at first, like a ram, and ignore reason until he was EXHAUSTED. Then he would slow down long enough to actually listen, and soak it in.

But when he gets it, he gets it.

And he went through a very similar experience with his first love. She was the same age as him, but spoiled and inconsistent. She was a Gemini with a Leo Moon. He did everything to try and please her. For 3 long years he put her first.

He was supposed to go into the Coast Guard but decided not to because she begged him not to go. Then she started lying and cheating on him...

It took him a full year to grieve that loss, but he bounced back. And now at age 28, he has a lovely wife and beautiful baby and a fix it upper house they love to work on together---SO THE SAME WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU---I just know it...


I have such a similar experience to your son Katydid!!!! I was supposed to finish my bachelors in engineering and join the Air Force as an officer to become a fighter pilot, I always wanted to fly.

I actually ended up staying because I thought she wanted a stable home and a stable life where I get to come home at night to her and our little ones and her autistic daughter.

Well she did not beg me to not go she did insist that I stick around instead of leaving which I also regret to this day because I should've left earlier in fact I wish I went through this process of falling out of love with her sooner than later.

It wasn't that I wasn't listening to you guys it's just that when you're in love you don't see nothing but perfection and everything wrong that the other person does you don't take it offensive you just see it as a little mistakes but when you fall out of love you start to realize that those weren't little mistakes those were a big **** ups ...

Well everybody criticized me and my relationship to her I understood the criticism and I fully agreed with everyone on those critics.
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OH, but one thing...don't get too caught up in whose 'fault' it was. Kind of a typical Aries archetype to want to be right, and blame the other person. Don't fall into that trap. You both share the blame and the credit...

I know it was both our fault but you need to realize that there was a time when I blamed everything on myself and I gave her that free card to not take the blame. Her being a Leo sun and Leo ascendantt never admit it to her mistakes even when I caught her with her lies instead she would just start up another lie to cover up that lie.


I dont I blamed her for everything katydid, but every time I would find out that she was lying about something we would go out to a coffee shop or restaurant and I would do my best to come down to a proper mature resolution an agreement to which we would solve whatever was the problem at the time.

Guess who never followed up on that resolution?

Truth be told it was a one way relationship where I was doing all the work she never really put the effort into it and that really hurt me for a long time until I realized that she doesn't really love me not the way I wanted her to love me.

The love she gave for me was love number two it wasn't love number one where I am the priority because to her the Sagittarius was priority not me.

When I fell out of love finally I realized that nobody on this face of the earth should be number to everybody deserve to be number one to somebody and vice versa.

The fact that I was not the priority in her life it helped fill her in realizing my worth and my value and all of the effort I put into our relationship after our **** up yes I messed up on a lot of things but I really didn't deserve to go through the things she put me through yet I appreciate the lessons I learned and I am more than happy to walk away safe and sound knowing that we have no children together that will suffer from our wrongdoing. I also appreciate the fact that I learned these lessons at a younger age because most men go through this when they're in their 40s and 50s sometimes in their 30s and they end up having a divorce with innocent children in the midst of it while I got to walk away with a free card thank God.


I also learned to love and value myself first and I learned that I come first and I realize the value of my education and my career and my family and friends and loved ones. I regained my confidence and my pride and ego to which was completely shattered due to what I had went through and at the end of the day I came out as the winner and I came out as a stronger healthier both physically and mentally.

At the end of the day she's going to be the loser because guess who she's still with? The Sagittarius. He's never going to put a ring on her hand he hadn't done so when I first met her in the first four years it's been six years now and he still hasn't put a ring on her hand and he never will. She still suffering I'm not there is a difference...

And while I find myself a beautiful woman to marry to have wonderful children with who will be by my side till the end, Who will make me priority number one and who will be much more beautiful loving and caring and my best friend....

Guess who's going to miss out on the marriage and the children and on the life that I wanted?

Her.... and she will see that with her own eyes someday and that is the greatest form of revenge to me, knowing that I will live the rest of my life being happy while she suffers in agony. I know it's a little harsh but once I PM you... you'll realize why..


Katydid I'm gonna send you a PM it's gonna be very personal but it'll give you a better insight of how bad **** was...
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I have good good good news... I'm FINALLY over her. Finally I am able to think for myself with out anxiety and impulsiveness. I am able to concentrate on myself and my education... although I made a vow to myself to never jump into relationships until I'm done with my main priorities as a 21 year old male. Truth be told I am happy I went through 2 1/2 years of ******** with her... cause I learned so so so much. And I'm also happy I learned it now cause god forbid what if I was married and had kids? My children would've suffered even more due to her selfishness.

Come to think of it...I now know it was her fault. She was the immature one with constant lying and poor decisionmaking. She was the one that tainted our relationship while I did my best to make enough coffee dates to fix issues. Issues we agreed on fixing but she never changed like she said she would. I won and she lost. How? I won because I dodged one big bullet. I won because I took what I could learn from it and come out a better stronger man out of this without innocent kids or anyone else suffering. She lost because she threw away a bright future, a home and a stable fun loving life. A marriage with kids where we all as a family would go out on adventures with and travel the world ect. That dream folks... she stole from herself. I type this smiling because when I share that dream with a young beautiful woman living my life the way I should as a faithful loving husband and father... she's gonna wonder how the **** she ruined it all for her self.

Thank you all for being there for me... every single one you.

P.S. It was you guys who were there for me where my family didn't even know ****. That should tell you folks something
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