LOL...something to remember about that story is that it's a "hollywood" story.
In order for anyone ....especially men because they are from "mars"....to say they want to be better or improve or "grow" personally, they would first have to admit that they are lacking. Frankly....and I am NOT young and I've known a LOT of people including a fair number of men....and admitting one is "lacking" and needs to "improve" is not natural for men. Most people get a bit defensive about this subject...even if they KNOW they need to "be better people."
Women do much better with this. First, because women always seem to be open to new ways of doing things; doing things that brings better results in their lives. Next because women have been taught to learn new things and to be more coorperative in life in general. We ask for advice more often. And we sincerely want to "do" things that may may us happier.
LIN
In order for anyone ....especially men because they are from "mars"....to say they want to be better or improve or "grow" personally, they would first have to admit that they are lacking. Frankly....and I am NOT young and I've known a LOT of people including a fair number of men....and admitting one is "lacking" and needs to "improve" is not natural for men. Most people get a bit defensive about this subject...even if they KNOW they need to "be better people."
Women do much better with this. First, because women always seem to be open to new ways of doing things; doing things that brings better results in their lives. Next because women have been taught to learn new things and to be more coorperative in life in general. We ask for advice more often. And we sincerely want to "do" things that may may us happier.
LIN