Definitely a good analysis, Lissa... And love your ever-changing avatar graphic, seems every time I read a new post from you you've got some cool new image!
Good psychologists are hard to find! Most of them are trained in clinical psychology, which has the emphesis on what's
wrong with you rather than how to
help you grow at your core. Of course, the good ones are out there, and I do hope you can find one, but certainly don't waste your time and money on those who are not helping you.
The closest aspect in your chart is a Mercury-Neptune square.. Mercury rules your 1st, Neptune your 7th... So, the rulers of the axis of relationship are in conflict. This is going to put a rough edge on your relationships overall, and a need for adjustment. Simply put, this indicates a strong feeling of friction between you (ascendant) and the other (descendant). The biggest concern here is that you constantly feel "on edge" when you relate to people, which is going to amplify the critical nature of your Virgo placements as Lissa has spoke of.
Pisces on the 7th cusp, coupled with the relating planets (Mars & Venus, natural rules of the 1st/7th) in the 12th (Neptune's natural house, IE a house that feels like Neptune) give Neptune/Pisces energy a very big factor in your relationships - These are very important and synergistic placements.
There is also an interesting setup between Venus, Neptune and your south node. Venus is in wide trine to both Neptune and the south node, but if you establish the midpoint of the wide ~6 degree SN/Neptune conjunct, 23Sag33, it is in
exact trine to your Venus at 23Leo33. Trines aren't generally used in midpoints, but since we're really dealing with two individual trines and simply observing how the center of the conjunction is perfectly trine Venus, it certainly is an interesting consideration, amplifying the importance of Venus trine Neptune&South Node, as if it were to reduce the orb. If Venus is relating, Neptune surrendering the self (ego), and south node what we have to move away from, this would indicate part of your growth path is to overcome your tendency to surrender yourself in relationships. This seems to be a common theme in your chart, Virgo-Pisces on the axis of relationship, as well as their rulers in square. It's hard to ignore so many synchronsitic placements.
The danger here is that you feel overly vulnerable, since the nature of Neptune-Pisces is to connect and merge with others rather than stand for one's own individuality and separateness. Boundaries can be lacking, as if others have some ability to "barge in" to your personal space. As Starlink mentioned, Neptune influence allows one to jump into others, but on the converse, can allow others to jump into you due to lack of boundaries. While I don't encourage anyone to build up a fortress to the world, some boundaries need to exist between you and other people. This is the Uranus/Neptune balance, an individual (Uranus) yet connected (Neptune) to others at the same time. Neither side is "better", what's best is a healthy balance here.