I'm brand new today and I'm very impressed with the chart readings done here so I thought I'd ask for some assistance with my own.
Some background: Several months ago, I met a man with whom I instantly fell in love. Having been married before, I thought I knew what love was…but he changed all of that for me. Within 48 hours of meeting, he was sure he was going to marry me. Our romance lasted only 5 months. I have been to two psychics, both of whom said that the reason he drifted away was that he was overwhelmed and unable to fully love and be loved.
Since then, I have met someone new. This man is fully dedicated to our relationship. He is a good, decent, wonderful man and I love him. My relationship with him is so much easier and healthier. We have fun together, we can talk about anything and everything, we fully enjoy one another’s company and our personalities blend seamlessly with one another. The problem? My love for him is not the same. Every time I start thinking about the future, I reflect on the love I had for the man in that prior relationship and I get scared because my love for this new man doesn’t feel as special or as powerful. I almost feel bound to that earlier relationship and I don’t know why. I feel as if I need to let it go and move forward with this current relationship. I can’t imagine I’d be settling for this new man because our relationship has been strong from the beginning, but I'm afraid I'll always wonder about the other and why it was so much different.
So, my question is this: is there anything in my chart that might help me with this dilemma? Is there a reason I can’t let go of this earlier relationship?
Please see my chart attached…
Some background: Several months ago, I met a man with whom I instantly fell in love. Having been married before, I thought I knew what love was…but he changed all of that for me. Within 48 hours of meeting, he was sure he was going to marry me. Our romance lasted only 5 months. I have been to two psychics, both of whom said that the reason he drifted away was that he was overwhelmed and unable to fully love and be loved.
Since then, I have met someone new. This man is fully dedicated to our relationship. He is a good, decent, wonderful man and I love him. My relationship with him is so much easier and healthier. We have fun together, we can talk about anything and everything, we fully enjoy one another’s company and our personalities blend seamlessly with one another. The problem? My love for him is not the same. Every time I start thinking about the future, I reflect on the love I had for the man in that prior relationship and I get scared because my love for this new man doesn’t feel as special or as powerful. I almost feel bound to that earlier relationship and I don’t know why. I feel as if I need to let it go and move forward with this current relationship. I can’t imagine I’d be settling for this new man because our relationship has been strong from the beginning, but I'm afraid I'll always wonder about the other and why it was so much different.
So, my question is this: is there anything in my chart that might help me with this dilemma? Is there a reason I can’t let go of this earlier relationship?
Please see my chart attached…