well the question is put in a manner that it means I was once... I knew how to have my way with girls, how to talk to them, how to seduce them... but now, for a while which means several months, it seams that I can't or don't know how to seduce them or even talk to them... so this is what I want to when... if I will be again, well it depends on me but some man will never be... it seems that at the moment after looking at my horrary chart, that Saturn which is my significator is conjuncting Venus and in the 9th house...Saturn not in a very good position... well I don't know how or when to becomen what I was... the reason I am putting this question is because I really miss me the way I was, how easy I could manage to have a small talk not just with girl but with any person I had just met... I've done something 9 months ago which related to sex and from that time, I began to change. I will post the horrary chart with the question together with my solar return chart.