HarmonE
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Im wondering about what in the charts of couples decides who has the power or control. I had an astrologer tell me as I was meeting a prospective partner that it wouldn't work well as she had all the power and I had none. I laughed it off because of my overly optimistic nature (thats my saggi) and figured if she tried to control me I would just leave. Well, that wasn't the case at all and it was proven to be right which humbled me greatly. I have since looked at the synastry chart and am trying to figure out how the astrologer saw this.
A few ideas I had has to do with the fact when our planets meet (conjunction), my partners planet is more outer than mine. For instance, her pluto on my uranus, her jupiter on my moon, her neptune on my sun and jupiter. The other thought was that my saturn makes no real aspects with her planets whereas her saturn is heavily aspected with my planets.
To clarify, I am on the inside and my partner is on the outside.
What are peoples thoughts on this?
A few ideas I had has to do with the fact when our planets meet (conjunction), my partners planet is more outer than mine. For instance, her pluto on my uranus, her jupiter on my moon, her neptune on my sun and jupiter. The other thought was that my saturn makes no real aspects with her planets whereas her saturn is heavily aspected with my planets.
To clarify, I am on the inside and my partner is on the outside.
What are peoples thoughts on this?