Hello! I'm new to this forum.
Me and husband, we had a falling out. He doesn't want to reconcile, he doesn't want to get divorced...
Will we reconcile? When approximately?
Thanks!
Hi Anny
Looking at this chart, as Venus and Mars to aspect, there is a possibility of coming back together. Mars is in sign of Taurus, showing he does care for you. However mars in his side of the chart, showing him unwilling and stubborn- fixed sign is normally fixed in their ideas. Mars placed in 2nd house may suggest him being concerned with his finances but also at values, could be looking at his own worth. Venus placed in detriment of Sun, sun in its own detriment too. Venus combust. Have you been putting him down as a man? It seems your attitude has been negative towards him as a man and that has caused him to feel less worthy. Sun is his secondary significator the male side, his identity as a man, and with mars and sun in detriment he really feels vulnerable, and puts himself down, feeling unworthy or negative about himself. He is not in a good place.
There is mercury retrograde away from Venus, ruling the 9th and 12th, not sure what this is. But being retrograde and both combust with Venus, it may also suggest issues of communication. I will need to know more about your situation to know what mercury is.
Now good thing is as Venus is trying to get to sun, sun gets away… but sun enters sign of Pisces where it exalts Venus. You will see shift in his attitude in about 5 degrees, I assume 5 months from the time of chart. Sun will also leave its detriment. This shift may mean he will feel warmer towards you as he feels less negative about himself. Venus and Mars complete aspect in 8 degrees, between 4-8 months from time of chart is when I see reconciliation, most likely at around 6 month mark. Moon also aspects mars. So all this is positive.
Do you guys have children? I’m trying to figure out the 5th house emphasis. Or did you guys have issues related to sexual activities?
Also can you please send me the time, date location for this chart.