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Unread 02-16-2019, 07:58 AM
ElenaJ ElenaJ is offline
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Re: Should I tell him that I still love him?

"once I tell him the truth about what was going on in these 6 months,"
Why would you do this?
Your experiences during the separation were things you apparently had to go through, to get where you are today. But why, if he will be jealous because of it, impose this on him?
And don't try to know what he was going through.
Two individuals have the right to be individuals during a period they are separated by mutual agreement. The period serves to help you grow outside the relationship so you can re-enter it with negative aspects behind you, and you can give more to each other. If you instead hurt each other by exchanging info that might hurt you, it isn't healthy. This is not being devious or secretive, it is being mature.
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