I have Mars in Virgo and Venus in Libra. I tend to like man that is clean, neat, intelligent, graceful with polite manner. My ideal man should be clean and well dressed, humble yet intelligent. He should be well spoken, able to have intelligent conversation with me, prefer to have higher/board interest than myself. I like to admire my lover because of Libra. I want to have a person that I can look up to. With Venus in Libra, I like handsome looking man (Everyone does!) but I do attract handsome looking man as well.
If my boyfriend doesn't take shower or brush his teeth, I will feel disgusted and unwilling to have physical contact with him. But I also have high tolerance something to do with 7th cusp Pisces....my ex only brush his teeth...maybe weekly and his best record was 4 days without shower....That had proven how much I used to love him........
I met my first boyfriend (ex husband) when Uranus transit was about to enter my 7th house cusp while transit Pluto square 7th house cusp. My natal Virgo Mars is in the 1st house, opposite to the 7th house cusp, some said that is meant to have difficult relationship/possibility of divorce anyway.
The relationship itself was extremely uneasy mainly due to his family had unrealistic expectation of me. I used to clean their houses, do cooking and for them few times weekly like a servant to earn their acceptance for almost 7 years non stop...
During the Uranus transit my 7th house cusp, I got married and just after 2 years we also divorced which suits the natural of Uranus very well, unstable, sudden and unpredictable. The divorce was due to many long term issues that my 7th Pisces can no longer tolerate and so I basically swept out everything and started fresh.
After divorce, I only have some brief insignificant relationships only like close friends at most, the longest one was 8 months long. He was a good man but due to long distance, it was impossible for me or him to move aboard to start live all over again. Uranus transit in 7th cusp, I don't think any relationship during such time could remain stable.
Since early this year, Neptune transit entered my 7th house cusp, regarding to relationship. I don't know rather I should stay single or take risk again. I am more into the single direction.
In general, my 5th house has a detriment Capricorn moon, although in detriment, when I am in love, I would still mother my boyfriend and at the same time, I do attract this type of man who wants to be mothered. My part of Fortune is in the 11th house in Cancer opposite to the cusp ruler. My fulfillment is earned by nurturing another person.
4th house ruler in 4th house, I have a deepest urge to nurture and be nurtured by other. Ruler in his own ruling cusp has the most significant power. Same as my 2nd house ruler Venus in Libra in 2nd house, I value all kinds of beauty and being able to love someone and be loved is very important to me. I value partnership very highly.
In term of the way I love, my 7th house is Pisces, I can be totally blind and out of reality.....My ex-husband was a type of person can't make decision himself, is really like two fishes swimming to different directions....a lot of time I need to make decision for him. A lot of time, I felt like I was his mother...very hard to find a balance not to mother too much. I also think that was my fault to make him overly dependent on me emotionally.
With a Capricorn Moon, my ex was also a Capricorn Moon man and his moon is even unaspected and being in a Cancer Sun & Venus sign, he had a lot of troubles expressing his emotions and when I needed him most, he was often emotionally unavailable....
Virgo Mars conjunct Venus Libra, I am very passionate and I like to conquer difficult love's quest. Jupiter in 4th rules Neptune and also 7th house cusp, I have a tendency to love foreigner. And Venus also rules my 9th house Taurus which also suggests foreigner. I think Venus, Mars and Jupiter are the main 3 planets to look at what type of partner you tend to like or get?
By the way, I think the 2nd marriage in 9th house should be correct. I don't know how to calculate lot of marriage. Anyone can help?
Since Mars is the night ruler of Scorpio, ruling 3rd house Scorpio Stellium natural rulers of 8th house in high energy. Mars also rules Aries in my 8th house, my ex partner and his family used to give me lot of gifts, go to expensive restaurant as such were normal things and my ex used to give me money all the time. He himself earned pretty good income. His sisters and mother are retail store owner, pharmacy owner/manager, doctor, state bank manager, ex brother in laws are also lawyer and pharmacist/owner all above average status. I suppose that is to do with my Venus in Libra ruler of 9th and Mars as Almuten ruler of 8th house...and Jupiter in vedic astrology represents husband. My Jupiter is the ruler of his own sign in his friend's house (4th) conjunct IC angular also in great power and Jupiter rules 7th house cusp.
Materially speaking, my ex was a very good marriage partner. But emotionally speaking, his unaspected moon and cheating were two intolerable qualities. And the external factor was my bad bad transit!!!