Lonely? I've not really been one to "be" so lonely, my mother
leo: sun
moon) on the other hand is like that. I usually have to many interest to be lonely. But, she did try to come between my dad
cancer: ) & I...and I really got along best with him, so guess you could say that I sort of "missed" him.
I have always remembered being "in" my mom before being born and thinking that I had to "get it right this time", that is was what was important and shouldn't be forgotten....I didn't remember exactly what, just something about coming back down here "again". I remember feeling cozy, warm & safe in there. You can hear your parents voices and feel their moods and this affects the baby very much, for better or worse. And I do know that my mother had some rough times emotionally and it got to the point that I didn't want to "go out there" (be born) where it was. So when things started to feel like it was changing, I actually fought my birth...at least this is how it felt for me. The birth process was awful and very scary, I didn't remember anything after that for a bit, but have great recall/memory of being a baby. And when I was about 13 found out that my birth had to be induced, my mom said the Dr. stated that "this baby just doesn't want to be born"!
I think that the Saturn conj. Neptune has helped with my retaining & grounding these memories. This experience made such an impact on me that I grew up telling everyone about it no matter how odd they thought I was.
Your question/statement about the Venus & Saturn aspect/house. I do take my relationships seriously and my mother, grandmother also did as far as I saw. The men in my life have been very good to me and the relationships very long lasting, in fact I'm still in contact (34 yrs.) with my first big love who lives in another country. OK...there you go...we didn't end up together for certain reasons, and that's been hard for us both I admit! lol And my mother wanted to be a writer instead of artist/mother, so that was disappointing for her....so there have been Sat/Ven not so good things. lol
The "big" happening that the Uranus tras. brought when it hit my Sat/Nep and by way of that, also nat. Pluto,Uranus, Sun, Venus, was of a "spiritual" nature and when I say big I mean BIG.....a life changer even though I was only about 19/20. I know it sounds crazy but it got me in touch with spirit helpers and led to an experience with the "LIGHT"...and this forever changed my world view and took away any fear of death.
So, I was interested to know if this could be seen through a chart and from what little I know, I do think it can. And you have been a nice help with this, so thank you. This has all been very interesting....