An opposite: I am wise but naive af.
Why were you cold with him?
My fear is he is an undercover narcissistic and playing with my head and playing games. I would put up a horary however if ppl read this they will be biased
That’s a very specific fear. Can’t you date him and suss him out? I dated a guy like that but fortunately for me he couldn’t keep up the facade and his mask slipped very early on. Was still horrible though.
A man respecting your boundaries is worth exploring a friendship with. xx. Start there.
Ewwww I’ve been in a narcissistic situation and never again. No thank you! I see it miles away and see it coming. They see me coming too but I flick it away.
Good on you. Women can be the worst ones especially manager types and I use the word manager very loosely. They like to call themselves leaders and they are nowhere near.
Have u thought about teaching others what you know. E.g if you have experience in retail you have one 2 one sessions with adults where u teach them customer service etc. You have a curriculum and go by it. It’s easy going, no boss on your back and you meet ppl?
Teaching others customer service? I don’t think I could do that. It’s not something which can be taught except to tell them to get a job in customer service lol. I have applied for an admin job and hopefully I get it and hopefully I’ll be a teacher in a couple of years so that’s my plan. No get rich quick schemes or teaching people their abc’s for me, I like the hard road. Wait, as a teacher I will be teaching abc’s 🙈🙊
I fully agree with what Passiflora said, he respected your boundaries but still checked in on you. Ask him if he would mind being friends with no pressure or expectations.
I can’t contact him now. I just can’t do it.
I don't much about it either. The angle I'm coming at it from is the angle of self-love and in my view you don't need to read anything to know about something. It all starts from within. Develop a relationship with yourself. This time of lockdown is the perfect time to not run away from yourself any longer and it teaches us life is short. Start an inner journey. Google about chakra meditations and start a relationship with yourself. Now is the perfect time to do it really. Corona has taught us to focus on what we need and not what we want. But I want my man and nothing will stop me even if I know better.
Lol you go for it. You know what you want!
Yes I will look at this. I was gonna say I don’t know where my chakra is. Will look it up and find how to do it and get some soothing music on. Sounds like a soothing music type of activity 😊😇