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Sorry if uploaded chart incorrectly, can't find instructions. Previous thread, can't find it to work out how to resurrect.Thankyou to all who replied.
Both parents unexpectedly passed. Living btw room in sister's (8 Mar 69) house & our parents' house. Will take about a yr to go through contents of family home (there 40yrs, mother long term chronic illness. If you don't understand why it'd take so long, you, like everyone not in the shoes of people like us, don't understand what it's like having long term chronically ill person in family. You're so lucky). Take our time when emotionally ready.
Sister dominating, bullying, abusive. No privacy. Unpleasant living her house, stay in parent's sometimes. She just turns up whenever she likes with her lazy boyfriend who looks through everything as if he owns it. Told her not to, tried to set boundaries, no difference.
Her job just ended, things worse. Now she'll be breathing down my neck even more than before. Hope a similar company offers her job & she accepts.
If sell family home, then try to find place to live. Imagine take yr or more to find suitable. Realise siblings are karmic lessons. After move out of her home, want to go my own way. Will not give her my phone number/address. When is this likely to happen? Things have not go better since both parents passed, actually got worse due to sister's behaviour. Unbearable.
Thankyou so much.
Sorry if uploaded chart incorrectly, can't find instructions. Previous thread, can't find it to work out how to resurrect.Thankyou to all who replied.
Both parents unexpectedly passed. Living btw room in sister's (8 Mar 69) house & our parents' house. Will take about a yr to go through contents of family home (there 40yrs, mother long term chronic illness. If you don't understand why it'd take so long, you, like everyone not in the shoes of people like us, don't understand what it's like having long term chronically ill person in family. You're so lucky). Take our time when emotionally ready.
Sister dominating, bullying, abusive. No privacy. Unpleasant living her house, stay in parent's sometimes. She just turns up whenever she likes with her lazy boyfriend who looks through everything as if he owns it. Told her not to, tried to set boundaries, no difference.
Her job just ended, things worse. Now she'll be breathing down my neck even more than before. Hope a similar company offers her job & she accepts.
If sell family home, then try to find place to live. Imagine take yr or more to find suitable. Realise siblings are karmic lessons. After move out of her home, want to go my own way. Will not give her my phone number/address. When is this likely to happen? Things have not go better since both parents passed, actually got worse due to sister's behaviour. Unbearable.
Thankyou so much.