tee_jay66: The irony of all this is amazing. You identify and treat yourself as an asexual, but you don't know why your root chakra is closed? It's closed because you haven't been using it. What's the quickest way to open the bottom chakra? Sex. It's quite straight-foward, actually.
I believe you correctly identified the problem for yourself, tee_jay66, but you haven't fully dissected it yet. The act of sex itself isn't the trouble, but an issue with intimacy. You have said that you've had sexual contact before and felt disappointed by it. That's because you require a mental, emotional, and spiritual bond in order to experience sex fully. That means that most people are incapable of satisfying you. I know exactly how that part feels, though I am a different sort.
What is not good is the fact that you do seem to have a notion of moral superiority attached to a lack of sex. There seems to be the idea that, "highly-developed people don't act that way." In my previous post, I assumed there was a connection between this and church/religion, but that connection isn't necessary. Don't you honestly feel that you are on one side of a fence and everyone else is on the other? Don't you attach some meaning to this that makes you feel justified? I know you've had to deal with many people who would like to change you and that is all the more reason to protect yourself by reinterpreting the differences. Others often see these differences as a weakness in you. Don't you turn the table by seeing weakness in them? At least sometimes?
What is the Truth of the matter? What if it really is the case that disciplined, loving, intimate sex is a good thing and the rules were put into place because 90+% of people get it wrong almost every time? What if it really is acceptable to be sexual in the right way? What if that difference between you and everyone else really just doesn't matter as much as it seems? I think you are defining yourself into a comfortable box and intentionally negating any reason there could ever be to leave the comfy box. You can't climb a mountain by looking at it and you can't get to the top of life by not living. Extracting yourself from the world is not what you were put here to do. You already have a way out. Now it's time for you to help others find their way and you can't do that by remaining sterile. Every person must be met where they are and every person is dirty (including you). So, if you will ever help anyone, you can't be afraid of getting your hands dirty. This last part has nothing to do with sex. This is about your ability to meet self through meeting others, which is love.
In the words of Edgar Cayce, "It's not about being goody-goody. It's about being good for something."