does he like me???

ivoryivy said:

i’m new to horary and i’m a little confused weather he likes me or not. thoughts?? i think he only sees me as a friend? also is it to early to ask the question? it’s in the early degrees of libra
https://ibb.co/hZ3GfTG
(i hope the link works)

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IleneK said:

The chart I see has a rising point in late Aries rather than early Libra, suggesting that you already know the answer.
Since both of your significators, Mars and Venus, are in mutual reception, I would say yes, he likes you as you like him.

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ivoryivy said:

oh yeah i forgot you have to look at the degrees of the ascendent i accidentally used to sun oops and i actually don’t know the answer i just had a feeling he did but i wasn’t so sure ! i just have a pretty strong intuition. thank you a lot for the help

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IleneK said:

You are welcome.
Just to reiterate: Late rising point says that you did know/intuit the answer.

So remember how that felt and please update.

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tikana said:

naw.

he is in 8th house about to flip signs . he could be attracted to another person soon (venus to saturn)

Mars is combusted in 6th house - his 12th. He doesnt see you plus there are things you dont know about him.
but there is literally no attraction (generosity is not sufficient enough to give a positive answer along with ill placed planets)

Mercury in his 1st house shows a hint that he be dating someone who is younger (merc)

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tikana said:

naw.

he is in 8th house about to flip signs . he could be attracted to another person soon (venus to saturn)

Mars is combusted in 6th house - his 12th. He doesnt see you plus there are things you dont know about him.
but there is literally no attraction (generosity is not sufficient enough to give a positive answer along with ill placed planets)

Mercury in his 1st house shows a hint that he be dating someone who is younger (merc)

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IleneK said:

The question was "does he like me?" to which I say that the mutual reception indicates that, yes, he likes her right now.

Whether he will continue to feel that way, whether they will get together, those are other questions, not yet posed.
To those questions, I would agree with your assessment, tik.

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tikana said:

ummm i was scratching my head with this one. the thing is we need L7 in H1. we are establishing who loves whom more. the querent feels something towards that person. we are looking for recipication


Tik

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IleneK said:

Thank you for the other chart delineation; it will be helpful in my learning.

I don't read the querent asking who loved whom most or reciprocation.
She did not even ask "Does he love me?'
Her question was "Does he like me?" defining the very early stage of a relationship.

I think the mutual reception between them demonstrates that in the moment of the question, "Does he like me?" the answer is yes.
I agree with the subsequent unfolding you describe and I still think that, yes, the quesited liked her at the moment of the question.

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IleneK said:

Thank you for the other chart delineation; it will be helpful in my learning.

I don't read the querent asking who loved whom most or reciprocation.
She did not even ask "Does he love me?'
Her question was "Does he like me?" defining the very early stage of a relationship.

I think the mutual reception between them demonstrates that in the moment of the question, "Does he like me?" the answer is yes.
I agree with the subsequent unfolding you describe and I still think that, yes, the quesited liked her at the moment of the question.

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tikana said:

yeah see she even says in the following post she was askign if he likes her romantically.

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ivoryivy said:

i should have asked a better question i wasn't super clear when asking the question, my bad. i was asking if he likes me in a romantic way, i just didn’t specify it.

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IleneK said:

I don't doubt that she meant it as she later described and the answer may be no.
I just took it at face value and answered it. And I do think he likes her. Maybe not in the way she wants, but he likes her.
Cheers, my friend.

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IleneK said:

You did just fine. You may have been reluctant to ask so directly if he was romantically interested in you. No matter. I think he likes you, but not in the way you might want and not in a way that is lasting.
Take good care.

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tikana said:

we can usually spot the true question. whaterver it is there is nothing much going on in the chart

cheers
Tik

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ivoryivy said:

thank you for taking the time to help i appreciate it

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tikana said:

2 cents on the issue
William Lilly wrote that a querent should clearly phrase a question in his/her head before asking. In another words, try avoiding beating around the bush.

does he like me?
Yes,then what?
will he ask me out?
YES NO

Just ask does is he attracted to me? will he ask me out? How will the relationship evolve and its nature?

you can ask all those 3 questions in 1 question.

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ivoryivy said:

ohh okay thank you i thought you couldn’t do any add on questions even if it’s in your head

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