anjelik
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I think that if you want to have sex with someone and you are safe and you are not hurting anyone (like breaking up a marriage or family), then go for it. Do I think love makes sex better? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I've had some mind blowing sex with people that I was not in love with. The connection was more or less just physical. I mean sure there was some sort of emotional connection (I think most women need that), but we weren't in a committed loving relationship, if that makes any sense. My personal point of view is that if you feel comfortable and confident in your choices then there shouldn't be a problem. It's your body and you should be able to express yourself however you choose and do not let society try and judge you for that. I am so tired of the double standard where men are rewarded for their conquests and women shamed. We are all humans and should be judged by the same set of standards. Just always use protection - I've found that most people who have STDs are not truthful about it anyway and are usually more lax about using protection. I had a friend who has an STD and when it flared up a year into her relationship she blamed it on her boyfriend (she is a bad person.. hence why we are no longer friends). So she essentially exposed him to her disease by not using protection and then blamed it on him to make him feel bad (he cheated on her with his ex, so she tried to make it seem like he got it from her and passed it on). They are apparently engaged.. haha I have no words for that.
And Zarathu is right. If a man doesn't want to sleep with you, he just isn't into you. I mean #1 indicator that there are problems in your relationship is when your man is not all that interested in having sex with you. That's like the fire alarm going off right there.
And Zarathu is right. If a man doesn't want to sleep with you, he just isn't into you. I mean #1 indicator that there are problems in your relationship is when your man is not all that interested in having sex with you. That's like the fire alarm going off right there.
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