misskitty
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Merry Christmas everyone!
Okay, I've been seeing a close friend of mine steadily for about 3 months now. To make a long story short he is recently divorced, and while our relationships is very good and he even surprised me with a vacation to the Carribean in February, he will throw around comments about how he is not sure he will ever want to be married again or committed. I knwo that's probably normal after what he just went through and our relationship being so new, but I do worry that I may invest a lot of time in this relationship and wind up without a commitment from him.
So.. my question was "will he ever want to be serious or commit to me?"
First, I realize a made a classic mistake by asking a "will this ever happen" question. I know it is better to ask for a specific timeframe. The chart is radical, though.
I am the Moon applying a conjunction to the ASC. The Moon is in its own sign and conjuncting the fortunate star Sirius. I hope this is a message from the heavens to stop worrying so much. Based on my own past bad experience, I start to worry when things are going RIGHT because that's when the rug has typically gotten pulled out from under my feet.
He is exalted in Saturn but in the 4th house. The 4th house is typically associated with endings, so maybe it is referring to his state of mind right now and how he is feeling pessimistic about relationships?
The Moon is in a partile square with Saturn, and it is separating. I was taught that a square can be a yes, but with much difficulty. Does this mean that he DOES feel like he wants to commit, but the square shows his extreme emotional block right now?
The next aspect is a trine with Jupiter in 9 somethings. Jupiter is his communication house and my house of trips and travel. Maybe this shows our upcoming vacation together, and the trine is showing a favorable outcome.
I believe the trine is also the last aspect since Uranus isn't typically considered in horary.
All in all, I don't see a glaring 'yes' but I don't see a 'no', either and it looks like our trip will go well. Am I on the right track?
Okay, I've been seeing a close friend of mine steadily for about 3 months now. To make a long story short he is recently divorced, and while our relationships is very good and he even surprised me with a vacation to the Carribean in February, he will throw around comments about how he is not sure he will ever want to be married again or committed. I knwo that's probably normal after what he just went through and our relationship being so new, but I do worry that I may invest a lot of time in this relationship and wind up without a commitment from him.
So.. my question was "will he ever want to be serious or commit to me?"
First, I realize a made a classic mistake by asking a "will this ever happen" question. I know it is better to ask for a specific timeframe. The chart is radical, though.
I am the Moon applying a conjunction to the ASC. The Moon is in its own sign and conjuncting the fortunate star Sirius. I hope this is a message from the heavens to stop worrying so much. Based on my own past bad experience, I start to worry when things are going RIGHT because that's when the rug has typically gotten pulled out from under my feet.
He is exalted in Saturn but in the 4th house. The 4th house is typically associated with endings, so maybe it is referring to his state of mind right now and how he is feeling pessimistic about relationships?
The Moon is in a partile square with Saturn, and it is separating. I was taught that a square can be a yes, but with much difficulty. Does this mean that he DOES feel like he wants to commit, but the square shows his extreme emotional block right now?
The next aspect is a trine with Jupiter in 9 somethings. Jupiter is his communication house and my house of trips and travel. Maybe this shows our upcoming vacation together, and the trine is showing a favorable outcome.
I believe the trine is also the last aspect since Uranus isn't typically considered in horary.
All in all, I don't see a glaring 'yes' but I don't see a 'no', either and it looks like our trip will go well. Am I on the right track?