Virgo Mars sexuality

druex

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I know you must look at the chart as a whole and not isolate a placement or aspect but I never really indentified with the Virgo Mars description, sexually at least, I'm very sensual and lusty but also very selective with who sees this side of me. Very few have since I prefer to be in a committed relationship. Never been a one night stand type of guy.

My modest Virgo Mars is well aspected, trines my Moon/Saturn conjunction. In Declination, it's contra-parallel to Pluto, maybe that could be it?

Anywho, thoughts?
 
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theV

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I think the Scoprio rising gives an intense pursuit of sexuality and intense intimacy, combines with that Venus in the 29 degree of leo conjunct the Sun very tight producing nymhpomanic, hyper sexuality,and enjoying secular, worldly pleasure "A cazimi Venus, for example, could easily be a nymphomaniac or ‘sex addict’," adds to that Jupiter conjunct Venus/Sun indulging in sexuality and sexual excess may lead to health trouble. Sun/Venus/Jupiter/Mercury probably sexual, erotic writing or poetry.

Venus parallel Mars is the mixture of masculine and feminine, metroesexual, androgyny personality, early sexual maturation. Mars contra parallel pluto, hyper masculinity, dominance sexually.
 

noraleader

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"A cazimi Venus, for example, could easily be a nymphomaniac or ‘sex addict’," adds to that Jupiter conjunct Venus/Sun indulging in sexuality and sexual excess may lead to health trouble. Sun/Venus/Jupiter/Mercury probably sexual, erotic writing or poetry.

i think whoever wrote that quote must have enjoyed writing it. i'm also a venus cazimi (in aquarius). greets.

i know this is an astrology forum but there is so much "astrologer-itis" -

again and again people look to astrology to explain everything, and sometimes i really think it needs to be allowed in this forum to say... look you guys... this is just plain and simple life...

the "biological urge" is strongly corroborated in modern culture, as are the physical, emotional and financial dangers of imprudent indulgence. your conditions of "lusty but selective" could be fit to practically any modern person, although given the numerous examples around us we can statistically identify a set of people who diverge to either parameter, so we can almost always say, "more than others, less than some" for any criteria we identify.

i think astrology is a useful and engaging tool for self development. but i also think that cultivating a wide scope of consideration is also a useful and engaging tool for self development; unfortunately it doesn't have it's own forum. i've long articulated a reluctance to issue definitive statements about my own nature, so that i can permit and encourage evolution, improvement instead of letting my self definitions limit me.

when i was twenty years old, i certainly could have asserted selective lustfulness. without saying too much, more than half a lifetime later, i'm glad i wasn't too committed to that self image, but i mention this for perspective, to authorise some flexibility in application of chart aspects to the nature of the native.
 

theV

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I think Venus is responsible for hypersexuality, lust more than Mars. Pornographic stars have strong libra, venus in their chart.
 

noraleader

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i'm kind of reminded of george carlin's bit about "anyone who drives slower than us is a moron, anyone who drives faster than us is an idiot". :sideways:
 

noouraz2

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I know you must look at the chart as a whole and not isolate a placement or aspect but I never really indentified with the Virgo Mars description, sexually at least, I'm very sensual and lusty but also very selective with who sees this side of me. Very few have since I prefer to be in a committed relationship. Never been a one night stand type of guy.

My modest Virgo Mars is well aspected, trines my Moon/Saturn conjunction. In Declination, it's contra-parallel to Pluto, maybe that could be it?

Anywho, thoughts?

marry me? :sideways:
 

noraleader

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I think Venus is responsible for hypersexuality, lust more than Mars. Pornographic stars have strong libra, venus in their chart.
but you see, pr*n is about presentation. it may seem "responsible" because our current commerce based society focuses on presentation - sex sells, people sell, so sex is part of how people sell themselves.. if you see what i mean in so few words ;) it's a heightened part of our lives because of our culture.

i logged back on to make a point about venus cazimi, and this relates..

venus is about pleasure, mars is about vigor, sexuality involves both, and i think you can see how each characteristic is, to some degree, associated with the generic sex roles.. venus is the object of desire, mars is the force and power of desire. lovers of either gender can embody either characteristic.

my point to druex -

i kinda sorta see astrology as part of a larger, integrated gestalt.. like.. you know how the native americans name the child by the first thing they see at birth.. the whole world is our natal chart.. everything is connected. busy, cosmopolitan humans don't have time for details.

a venus cazimi, imo, may have a "profound aesthetic sensibility" eg. in the practice of lovemaking may have innate, intrinsic aptitudes for creating a pleasing experience. maybe not.. like you say "look at the whole chart" i say "look at the whole life, the whole of existence is the ultimate chart", so your cazimi or other features may translate and manifest more in some circumstances and arrangements then others, which is why i think astrology is worth learning but not worth placing above other things.

i was going to say, be careful (ha i accidentally typed "dareful") because your cazimi may translate into a profound experience for some people, who may be strongly affected by it. as if sexuality wasn't profound and intense enough..

i remember this guy from london who had a tryst in mongolia when he was touring china.. i don't really know mongolia but this woman followed him around china everywhere he went..

..i never heard from him again. that is the kind of "reaction" i'm talking about..

btw i googled "mars in virgo" and the first descriptor (without following any links) said "aggressively analytical". i think the phrase "like a scientist" has seen recent popularity.
 
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CapAquaPis

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What if Mars in Virgo conjuncts another planet (in my case, Jupiter & Saturn) or opposite a planet? (Mercury in Pisces on mine). I'm an Aquarius Sun/Moon-8th and Venus in Aries-midheaven, conjunct Eris and Ceres. I can't be sure Mars in Virgo makes a person more sexual, promiscuous or into different things not found in other Mars placements. :devil: (actually, I'm not that bad) :innocent:
 

druex

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but you see, pr*n is about presentation. it may seem "responsible" because our current commerce based society focuses on presentation - sex sells, people sell, so sex is part of how people sell themselves.. if you see what i mean in so few words ;) it's a heightened part of our lives because of our culture.

i logged back on to make a point about venus cazimi, and this relates..

venus is about pleasure, mars is about vigor, sexuality involves both, and i think you can see how each characteristic is, to some degree, associated with the generic sex roles.. venus is the object of desire, mars is the force and power of desire. lovers of either gender can embody either characteristic.

my point to druex -

i kinda sorta see astrology as part of a larger, integrated gestalt.. like.. you know how the native americans name the child by the first thing they see at birth.. the whole world is our natal chart.. everything is connected. busy, cosmopolitan humans don't have time for details.

a venus cazimi, imo, may have a "profound aesthetic sensibility" eg. in the practice of lovemaking may have innate, intrinsic aptitudes for creating a pleasing experience. maybe not.. like you say "look at the whole chart" i say "look at the whole life, the whole of existence is the ultimate chart", so your cazimi or other features may translate and manifest more in some circumstances and arrangements then others, which is why i think astrology is worth learning but not worth placing above other things.

i was going to say, be careful (ha i accidentally typed "dareful") because your cazimi may translate into a profound experience for some people, who may be strongly affected by it. as if sexuality wasn't profound and intense enough..

i remember this guy from london who had a tryst in mongolia when he was touring china.. i don't really know mongolia but this woman followed him around china everywhere he went..

..i never heard from him again. that is the kind of "reaction" i'm talking about..

btw i googled "mars in virgo" and the first descriptor (without following any links) said "aggressively analytical". i think the phrase "like a scientist" has seen recent popularity.

What is cazimi? I've heard of it but never knew exactly what it mean. Something being combust or burnt? Not sure
 
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