I believe in choice-centered astrology. I do not believe in a mechanistic, fatalistic view of the cosmos that gives us few or no choices. So I would suggest you analyse why you seem to gravitate towards these relationships, and then set some simple, realistic goals for changing them for the better.
Your 11th house of friends does seem to be a little troubled, with its ruler Mercury squaring Neptune and your moon. You may think with your feelings more than with your head. But also, with your sun (identity,) Venus (femininity) and Saturn (hardships) all bound up in a trine with Pluto and sextile with Uranus, isn't there a part of you that gravitates towards relationships with someone who you fundamentally know won't be good for you, just because you crave the intensity of experience?
This is just a hunch. It looks like you are also blessed with a rich imagination. Are you an artist?