I’ve been left wondering if I ever even mattered to a Scorpio sun and Scorpio Venus if they ghosted me once...
This Scorpio man had been borderline obsessively pursuing me for 3 entire months, and due to going to school out of state I was never able to go out with him during this time. He would still text me regularly and ask me every chance he got if I was coming home or if he could visit (he’d ask every two weeks). I declined but he was always still so respectful, despite sounding a bit aggressive. A mutual friend (who is objectively more attractive than me) expressed interest in him during this time, but he declined her advances. He said multiple times that he knew he didn’t know me well but he saw me in his future. He’s 29.
The last time we spoke he had asked me to come over to his family’s house (who I’ve never met) for thanksgiving dinner if I was coming back. This was on September 30th. I kind of evaded the question and said it was months from now. He said it wasn’t that long to him. I didn’t address it further and replied with a jokey sexual innuendo (sorry for the cringe).
He never responded to that for two months. Until today when he texted out of the blue and asked me when I was going to visit. I’m not angry because I admit I was being flakey and annoying. But I’m mostly just confused because he acted like he didn’t just ghost me for two months. He sounds even more sincere and emotionally forthcoming than the last time...
I’ve considered that he likely has just come back because he was bored or his other choice of girl didn’t work out, (but my gut tells me I was his first choice and so do my friends who don’t even like him). But some also said the ghosting might’ve been because I offended him by not being serious enough about him...
His return has been making me feel really bad inside so any insight or help working this out would be so appreciated.
This Scorpio man had been borderline obsessively pursuing me for 3 entire months, and due to going to school out of state I was never able to go out with him during this time. He would still text me regularly and ask me every chance he got if I was coming home or if he could visit (he’d ask every two weeks). I declined but he was always still so respectful, despite sounding a bit aggressive. A mutual friend (who is objectively more attractive than me) expressed interest in him during this time, but he declined her advances. He said multiple times that he knew he didn’t know me well but he saw me in his future. He’s 29.
The last time we spoke he had asked me to come over to his family’s house (who I’ve never met) for thanksgiving dinner if I was coming back. This was on September 30th. I kind of evaded the question and said it was months from now. He said it wasn’t that long to him. I didn’t address it further and replied with a jokey sexual innuendo (sorry for the cringe).
He never responded to that for two months. Until today when he texted out of the blue and asked me when I was going to visit. I’m not angry because I admit I was being flakey and annoying. But I’m mostly just confused because he acted like he didn’t just ghost me for two months. He sounds even more sincere and emotionally forthcoming than the last time...
I’ve considered that he likely has just come back because he was bored or his other choice of girl didn’t work out, (but my gut tells me I was his first choice and so do my friends who don’t even like him). But some also said the ghosting might’ve been because I offended him by not being serious enough about him...
His return has been making me feel really bad inside so any insight or help working this out would be so appreciated.