Hello all, I am new to the forum but have been interested with astrology for a few years now. I'm hoping to get some relationship feedback/advice as to what you may all think.
I was in a relationship with a scorpio woman for about 2 1/2 years.
I'm a cancer sun and sagi moon. She's scorpio sun and cancer moon. It's been a little over 2 months since she broke up with me and I am beginning to think she will never come back. To be dead honest, this girl was madly in love with me for a long time. We would have fights every now and then, mainly due to my jealousy issues with some of her guy friends, but we would make up and things would be back to normal. I admit, that I would display the classic cancerian moodyness from time to time, and lash out if I felt some attitude/sass being given towards me, which I think she ended up getting tired of. Most importantly, she was very big on me finding a job and would constantly ask if I was applying to jobs; she would even send me job application links, which I told her I appreciated. I however, was too comfortable with my life during this time and didn't really show her that motivation and drive to get a job. I think this was a large part of why she ended up breaking up with me after the last fight we had.
I wrote her a love letter a week after the breakup telling her how much I loved her and that I will make the changes to help our relationship but she said she was sorry but we cant be together right now. I waited 2 weeks and asked to talk, but got a similar answer, "i dont think now is a good time for that". Since that time I have found a good job and been working on fixing my life. I called her a month after that, she congratulated me on the job and seemed nice to me but once I told her I missed her and that we should get together to talk, I got the same answer again. I know I should have just left her alone this whole time but now I'm beginning to think its completely over. I'm waiting until her birthday on Oct. 28th to wish her a happy birthday and see what kind of response I get then. I've just been so lost in trying to get her back I don't know what is right or wrong anymore. Any thoughts/advice are appreciated. Thanks.
I was in a relationship with a scorpio woman for about 2 1/2 years.
I'm a cancer sun and sagi moon. She's scorpio sun and cancer moon. It's been a little over 2 months since she broke up with me and I am beginning to think she will never come back. To be dead honest, this girl was madly in love with me for a long time. We would have fights every now and then, mainly due to my jealousy issues with some of her guy friends, but we would make up and things would be back to normal. I admit, that I would display the classic cancerian moodyness from time to time, and lash out if I felt some attitude/sass being given towards me, which I think she ended up getting tired of. Most importantly, she was very big on me finding a job and would constantly ask if I was applying to jobs; she would even send me job application links, which I told her I appreciated. I however, was too comfortable with my life during this time and didn't really show her that motivation and drive to get a job. I think this was a large part of why she ended up breaking up with me after the last fight we had.
I wrote her a love letter a week after the breakup telling her how much I loved her and that I will make the changes to help our relationship but she said she was sorry but we cant be together right now. I waited 2 weeks and asked to talk, but got a similar answer, "i dont think now is a good time for that". Since that time I have found a good job and been working on fixing my life. I called her a month after that, she congratulated me on the job and seemed nice to me but once I told her I missed her and that we should get together to talk, I got the same answer again. I know I should have just left her alone this whole time but now I'm beginning to think its completely over. I'm waiting until her birthday on Oct. 28th to wish her a happy birthday and see what kind of response I get then. I've just been so lost in trying to get her back I don't know what is right or wrong anymore. Any thoughts/advice are appreciated. Thanks.