First of all, I'd say calm down a bit about marriage.
thankyou so much, i know i should relax but i guess it is just the whole family pressure ( all are married and even younger then me are marreid and since my parents are really worried for it i guess it translates plus i feel would like to settle down now)
I don't know about natal chart giving a certain age on marriage, but it's not a decision that you'd like to take on a rush. I see that your chart is very fiery but there is also air energy so you might like to use that energy to act more ''sanguine'', as is the associated word.
Your tenth house is your career house, and you have venus and mercury in that house, so I can see your interest in love as something very central to your life, also having venus in scorpio you expect much from love, a deep understanding and union. Also you have mercury there in leo, so I don't think you would miss chances by being shy or reclusive. I wonder what do you do as a job.
i work in an institute and i look after all publications plusdevelop learning material for the training programmes
Aslo you have sun in ninth house, in leo, so expect to be philospohical, and a life understanding which will help you expresss yourself in your best and shiny is expected to be developed. Manily because of your Saturn squares to both to your sun and moon, and pluto squares to again both, I can see the tension in your chart which may make you stress, but your Venus or Mercury is in no hard aspects so calm down a bit when it comes to love an marriage.
many thanks years ago someone had said there is no marriage in m y chart so was a lil worried
And now I'm seeing that you have Chiron in Gemini in seventh house, thus the stir and humdrum. Chiron notes where you feel wounded in life, mostly and inner would that you shoud self-heal and have a genuine understanding. Once you are able to heal yourself, you then have a genuine understanding of the issue and will be able to show the way on this issue. Seventh house is generall regarded as the house of marriage and it gives an ide of your romantic relatioınships in general. Having Chiron in seventh in Gemini, I can see your rush in trying to get a hold of the issue, to learn about. I am not very knowledgable on chiron in Gemini, but I'm sure you'll find a lot on the internet. It is most possibly realted to your understanding of marriage, or lack of understanding on it; and I think you'll have to forge your understanding of what to expect from romantic relationships, what do they stand for it in your life and how important are they for you; I think first you'll have to form your own understanding on these issues. Nourish yourself with all the time and attention you may want to and don't rush. You may feel like you're less competent than other when it comes to expressing yourself romantically, or that you are less deserving, but the thing with chiron is you are actually more and should give yourself the time and attention and nourishment. Also the relaxation. I can say that all the other aspect are beneficiary with your chiron, your sun sextiles [when you solve the problem you'll be talented and will be able to ake pride], and your moon trines [you are naturally inclined to deal with this problem and it comes natural that you should].
hmm that does make sense, many times i feel maybe there is osmething wrong with me hence not married or maybe am just expecting alot or maybe too idealistic view of marriage, this makes sense, i should actually understand and find out what i really want right ? is that what u mean?:
unsure:
You have your north node in Gemini too, so researching, and communication, and intellectual issues, solving mysteries and problems intelectually will be an important point in your journey.
my current job is this only have to reseac debelop create material for traing of corporates so i guess it is good right? 
Experiement with these talk, write, read on issues, be more expressive, do researches and in time you'll feel more competent. Nervous sysem issues may be a problem so remember to relax and take up meditation if you feel inclined and make sure you learn breating and relaxation techniques. You have your Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune in a very benficial positions so you'll have abundance in your way. You'll have your lessons by Saturn and these are problems that you'll be able to work out by yourself. So read write and learn, be aware of your saturn aspects and learn bout them. Also read on chiron in gemini in 8th house,
above u said it as seventh? so it is in both?
and praobably you'll find other people with these position also reconciliation stories, so learn from them.
Also you have some important degrees, especially your leo in zero, some other planets in 1, and a 28 these are mostly considered important degrees [all of them are, but look them up] so if you feel inclined read on them. If you search sabian symbols, chandra symbols, or just degree meaning on google you'll find some related data. You'll find some general and somewhat traditional data even from here:
http://www.astrotheme.com/the_360_symbolic_degrees.php
For Chandra here:
http://spoogle.us/~tsuzuki/astrology/inside_degrees/inside_degrees.html
For Sabian here:
http://www.cafeastrology.com/sabiansymbols_degreemeanings.html
If you do a google search on the keywords of sabian symbols you find here, you'll also find interpretations.
