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Unread 03-29-2013, 10:45 PM
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Re: Sexual tension at work

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Originally Posted by Lenzites betulina View Post
Unfortunately fantasies will only intensify your desire and subsequently cause you to be more likely to act upon your impulses.

It is of utmost importance to find the cause, the root of the desire. Once you do this, you will be able to nullify it. Try a visual meditation. Ask yourself where the desire is coming from and either mentally or astrally project to find the answer, depending on your personal inclination. You may have to decypher the answer you receive, but it will give you a good lead. Take notice of your body feelings(like gut feelings, your chakral feelings) one the meditation is in action. It may be easier to get to level with a friend to guide you and participate in the meditation with you.

Once you find the cause of the desires you can work directly with the cause itself and loosen the power these impulses have over you.
Another brilliant and sage-like piece of advice from you LB. Thank you.
I am trying extremely hard to understand the root cause of this desire. I think it may be something to do with the fact I have not had many friends while growing up, a mother that was not always easy to relate to, and difficulty in virtually all relationships with women. I am still thinking about this one, I really want to understand this.
I would like to think I am making progress.
I have been meditating and chanting for the past five years for 1.5 - 2 hrs a day. I appreciate the insights that are coming so far. Still need more time to work this mental issue out. Until I do, I think it will be a recurring thing.
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