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Unread 03-26-2013, 11:22 AM
Lenzites betulina Lenzites betulina is offline
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Re: Sexual tension at work

In all likelihood this will not be the first time you feel such sexual tension with a person of authority.

Often time such urges come because of an admiration of the power held by the authority figure. Sexual contact is a way to attempt to get that power, but it rarely works. Look up "dating your boss" on google for more info.

The best way to deal with this is to develop a sense of power and direction within oneself that is not dependent upon the affirmation of external figures who hold power. Only you can give yourself power. This power comes through self-understanding.
"The conditions at the time a problem becomes evident are not neccessarily the conditions which caused the problem."
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