What I see is far too many self-proclaimed Christians ignoring the most basic teachings of Jesus: to assist and comfort the most vulnerable members of society. These vulnerable people may well be the strangers in your midst, not Christians who think just like you. (Mathew 25:35, Hebrews 13:1-2.)
I said nothing about the Taliban, so no, I "am not saying" that.
Jesus said to love your enemies. I didn't make this up. I merely quoted it for you. Matthew 5:44. Even tax collectors love those who love them. Christians are held to a higher standard.
Jesus also said, "Do not resist the evil person. if someone hits you on the cheek, offer him your other cheek, as well. (Mathew 5:39) [As a political strategy this is known as passive resistance.]
I assume that we are reading the same Romans 12.
12:14 "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse."
12: "17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil."
12: 20-21 "'If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.' Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
The burning coals bit sounds nasty, but obviously it is metaphorical, repeating Proverbs 25: 21-22. It indicates that through kind treatment, one's enemy will become deeply ashamed of his past conduct, and his better instincts will be rekindled. Think of a fire that has nearly gone out, that can be brought back to a warming blaze. The fire is the enemy's conscience.
http://www.egrc.net/articles/Rock/Puzzling_Passages/BurningCoals.html
Petosiris, is Christian love for humanity, with all of its imperfections, such a difficult concept for you?