View Single Post
Unread 01-21-2019, 07:28 PM
Tandy Tandy is offline
Join Date: Oct 2018
Posts: 108
Re: who does he truly love???

Originally Posted by IleneK View Post
First of all, just to make it clear: it is easy to love two people at one time. There is no fixed quantity of love in any of us. It doesn't have to be you or her, and, in this instance, I think it may not be you or her.

If he is friends with ex and we designate ex as ruler of his 11th SIGN/house, or Venus, then I think he feels kind of the same about both of you [you as Jup and her as Venus]. This is based on the fact that both you and her are in the sign of Sag, which is Mercury's detriment. So he's not looking too favorably on either of you. You both are also are disjunct, or not aspecting, Merc, being one sign apart. So he really doesn't "get" either of you. [Neither do you two really get him, either.]

The fact that this question comes up for you points to the underlying problem, the lack of trust, in the relationship. If it were me, I wouldn't stick around. There are brighter vistas for you elsewhere.
When is it easy to love two people at same time? Ask a torn Libra? The problems that come with not deciding are the same as come with not caring too much about either, but for yourself. My heart is full of love for 12 people at once, but I don't short change them by pretending one doesn't have preference and commitment over another. How are you defining love?
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Tandy For This Useful Post:
Heavensmystery (01-26-2019)