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Unread 03-24-2020, 10:59 AM
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Re: Is there any good chance/hope of a stable relationship???

Originally Posted by RudhraDevan View Post
Hi RITZ Sir, we both share a quite similar chart pattern with few variations. We both are Cancer ASC's but for me both ASC & Rashi ( Moon Sign ) is Cancer only.... both in "Pushya" constellations.... as for you Moon sign has become " Libra ".... other similar patterns.... Ketu in 3rd bhava/house in Virgo sign and Saturn in 5th Bhava/House with a minor difference that Saturn for you is alone and for me it's with Sun but 11 degrees away so away from combustion. The reason why I mentioned about "Combustion" concept.... any planet excluding Rahu/Ketu would get weakened in their abilities provided they are within 10 degrees range from the Sun's placement degree. In your chart, THREE planets got "significantly" combusted as follows, a)the 1st Yoga karaka planet for Cancer Asc " MARS ( 5th & 10th lord as per ASC ) " b) Your Moon sign lord and also it's dispositor " VENUS (BADHAKA for Cancer Asc (4th & 11th lord as per ASC ) ".... Badhaka lord getting "weakened" is welcomed but in this case he is also the Moon sign lord.... so though not good but at the same time not worse too since it's dispositor Sun is placed in it's own house.... say "neutral" for now.... c)The intellect planet Mercury too got combusted and since he is the dispositor of Ketu in Virgo relationship issues got boosted because Ketu by nature likes to be in detachment.... had been Mercury placed in a better position the results would have been much different Now, why I explained briefly about combusted planets first instead of analyzing directly the planets concerned for relationship failure.... it's as follows, Mars/Venus conjunction in any sign.... most sought pattern for relationships.... here both are in combustion.... not that easy to sustain relationship for longer periods.... Planet Moon, 2nd royal planet to Sun in astrological terms.... got weaker due to Venus combustion ( Moon's dispositor ).... Moon karaka for Mind & Body.... unstable, wavering since the Karaka planet for relationships Venus combusted.... Now, both pivotal planets Moon ( in Mar's star ) and Mercury ( in Venus's star) have combusted planets as their star lord and these are also relationship oriented planets.... since afflicted no stability in relationships.... does not matter about the effort invested or compromises made.... Reason for this: Moon is your 3rd CSL ( Cuspal Sub Lord ).... so any bhava that had been signified or owned by Moon would generally be recursive ( appearing again & again ) but at the same time highly unstable since Moon is the only planet that is very swift in transit from one sign to next.... since he becomes the 3rd CSL the communication domain would heavily be influenced by him.... IMPORTANT NOTE: Combustion does not mean a planet would be totally inactive.... to be very precise the significance or the karaka's held by the combusted planet would be given by Sun.... generally Sun will not yield so flexibly as far as relationships are concerned but in your case it's in own Swarashi ( own sign and house )..... 2nd from lagna well placed and established.... So what's the reason for no materialization of any relationships ?..... Is it only Moon and other 3 combusted planets ( Mars, Mercury & Venus ).... obviously no.... here comes the kingmaker Saturn.... being placed in an inimical sign and that too most dreaded fearful sign of natural zodiac ( Kalpurush 8th bhava, Scorpio ( Owned by Mars ) ) He covers 3 pivotal relationship based houses by his 3rd aspect ( on Capricorn, his own house, 7th from your Asc ), with his Sama Saptama aspect ( 7th aspect ) on your 11th house of gains ( even social relationship is considered a gain ) and finally his very powerful 10th aspect on your 2nd house from Asc.... unless Retrograde Saturn's aspects would surely incur a prolonged delay ( Same case with my chart too ) but you are more fortunate than me because you have escaped a special "Saturn + Moon" combination called Punarphoo.... you can google that....lots of clear explanations on net.... but unfortunately I got trapped.... well it's my Karma anyway.... happy for you that no much psychological or physical depression as with my case.... now, coming back planet Saturn is your 1st, 2nd, 7th, 8th and 11th CSL ( as per KP ASTROLOGY ).... So you see unless he shows his grace we won't be able to move an inch in any pivotal events of our personal/social/professional domains..... albeit Saturn delays..... he won't deny like planet Ketu.... so don't worry at all.... times will change and fine breeze would surely blow on you.... just focus on your present real life issues.... As for your query about distance, 3rd bhava/house for short distance and 9th Bhava/House for long distance.... with a powerful Rahu placed in 9th think there's no need of much explanation for it....still any concern feel free to approach.... May God bless you with all his might !!!!

Hi, sorry for the late reply. but here we go -

it's nice to know we hv some similarities in our charts. i hv some more charts of some friends who are also cancer risings and of course with different planet placements and all. but i see in theirs also.. relationship area is quite obvious... they are unmarried, relationships didn't work out, or there often break ups and then back together again.

and also i hv my doubts about my accurate time of birth as it can easily change the nakshatra placements if not the sign placements. and this goes for everyone out there!

and am sorry to know that your saturn is with sun.. am not sure exactly what it does there.. but i do believe everything has good side also not just bad... so am sure it has it's good sides also. i will study this..

ketu in 3rd.. according to texts, i should be detached with my siblings.. in a way yes i am, but not totally. and i hv lots of hobbies i love and also a perfectionist. and i don't like to speak much.. and i like intellectual stimulation.

about the combustion.. if i am right, mars (magha 4) is in the lowest degree... which makes sense as i love to be active physically ( sports sometimes, and yoga practice ) and also my temper is to look out for !!! i am patient till i am patient.. when i lose it.. i lose it and end relations if necessary .. i also hv ego or high self esteem .. don't take well to being ill-treated , and also anyone close to me... am protective of them and their well-being.. , mercury is not combusted.. it's in purvaphalguni 2, when i speak i love to speak only with certain people who are open minded and understanding and i naturally hv loud tone of voice.. yes but venus is combusted.. so i can be quite blunt and straightforward for many and they don't like it and many get surprised and compliment.. (we can't please everyone, neither i care to please everyone!) and mars-venus combust.. well maybe this explains why sometimes beyond my reason i tend to attract attention from the opposite sex.. even though i am not a flashy dresser, the opposite .. simple dresser.. and neither am i attractive.. but they all say or said, they find me interesting as a person and also my attitude and that i am different compared to others and a nice and genuine person.. ( maybe moon aspects jupiter in this case? i dont know yet.. ) i hv extremely low tolerance for bull **** like -lies, manipulation, arrogance, drama, insensitivity etc.. i don't talk to such ppl twice.. i change my path. maybe this is also a big factor why my relationships don't work.. as it's not easy to be honest and genuine for many ppl .. i don't understand why.. and i don't accept anything less. they are good ppl who i dated.. but distance problem so couldn't get to know them well enough.. but also i hv caught their small lies and i don't accept anyone controlling me.. my parents also never tried to control me too much.. maybe this is sun in leo speaking ?

i will write more soon.. sorry for the delay and the break.. and also i feel the above what i said, i said too much and unnecessary .. :/ but it's ok now..
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