Venus Neptune yes nice and fluffy but I personally would never say an inconjuct are nice
. I hate them! there are very difficult to navigate, in time we learn...read about them. You ahve to give up something and adjust. By transist they can mean an ending to something.
Maybe focus on the positive aspect of your Venus instead of the difficult one to attract the right person? For instance, Venus trine Saturn, okay some difficulty because of the retro but you can get there. Someone older first or acts older, a bit serious, displays Cap qualities. That aspect and also the retro means delays so you could get that nice venus Saturn relationship later in life. Don't worry you are not alone, I have saturn in the u7th and still waiting
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What degree is your Venus if you don't mind me asking? Working abroad would be fab for this but there would need to be more aspects in transit, progression, solar returns, whatever you like using to see this. You need to see the same activation in 3 different chart for it to be an event.