Houses are not = to signs. 8th house is not = Scorpio. Please make it a point to understand that.
Also, in general, a lot depends on the condition of the Moon itself. For e.g., an exalted Taurus Moon will be able to handle a tight Pluto aspect much better than a fallen Scorpio Moon or a debilitated Cap Moon. So, one needs to consider various aspects and not just 'the aspects'.
Thanks for make it more clear. Very interesting how seemingly small details makes bigger difference in these cases