Your chart seems to have disappeared out of photobucket.
You seem to have a really negative view of the benefics. Why?
Venus generally signifies women, love, art, pleasure, and beauty. Jupiter is somewhat philosophical, it rules wealth, religion, and tends to fairness and fortune. Jupiter is generous, but doesn't tend to excess unless afflicted.
Unless otherwise afflicted, they both bring good. Jupiter possibly moreso for you, because you were born in the daytime, so it's your in-sect benefic. Yet Venus is her rulership so...you tell me.
The concepts of almuten and lord of the geniture belong to traditional astrology. In modern astrology, or at least most kinds of it, your ascendant ruler is your chart ruler. A few traditional astrologers use the outer planets (most of us don't), and since the outers have no rulerships or other essential dignities, they aren't used in calculating the almuten or LoG.