By all means, I'd be happy to assist.
Thank you. It means a lot. Here is our synastry (with as close time as possible for him - though not exact.) His birthtime is unknown and I guessed because I'm guite certain his Moon is in Libra and he has every indication of it being conj. Pluto. So, hopefully, close enough.
He's outside, Red.
Venus trine Saturn that you were referring to there again. I hope that it the potential for a committed relationship.
His Mars opposite my Mars and difficult Mars-Uranus aspects seem to be what pulls us apart sometimes.
He is a natal Mars-Pluto opp and Venus in Cap square Pluto, so he loves challenges/game playing and fears getting close but he's also so very Scorpionic and wants a committed and deep relationship, I feel. I think he's also brilliant - and Mercury with his Sun in Scorpio may make for a painful shyness that he hides so expertly, I don't think anyone knows. I can only see it when I look into his eyes at certain moments.
He has Moon square Saturn, like me - and other influences that makes him question his relationships with women, I'm sure.
We have Mercury opp each other's Saturn and Mercury-Pluto square while he has Mercury in Scorpio so we tend to jump to the wrong conclusions about each other and fear that the other has hidden motives I think. It must be.
I think we're actually very much alike and communicate in a psychic way, but this I can't explain so well. Sun/Neptune connections?
I think we'd need to - and do give each other freedom, I am very conscious of that because of my own Moon Aqua, Sag-Sun needs (It scares me, but I've done a lot of work on myself to want to be vulnerable to be in a relationship - only with the right person though but I would venture it.)
Maybe we mostly need to work on not expecting hidden motives and pushing each other away. We mirror each other's behavior a lot because of that Moon-Saturn square. Yet there's the Venus trine each other's Saturn
I think this has been an on/off thing for a while due to the Mars/Uranus. The biggest challenge right now is the distance and c r a p p y communication. He doesn't like to ever show a weakness and he's at a very vulnerable state these past few years with his leaving a very high-profile job and venturing to make it on his own.
Not 100% sure of the above seeing as this is the first synastry I've truly looked at.